Ahem....I can easily give the other side of the coin and how a woman may find herself a recipient of this:
..the previous day. .
Woman: Why is it that it is I who has to call you everytime? When was the last time you called tosay something, even to just hear my voice?
Man: eeem,..aaaam...hhmmmm
Woman: You don't put any work into this! Do you appreciate anything at all?? ...
Woman: You never call me! In fact you only call when you want sex...
And so on and so forth....
To preempt a tirade/guilt trip, arrest a potential future argument, a dude will call and string two or three words together just to tick a box
Left to their devices some men would speak very little. Am I right or am I wrong gentlemen of Wazua?

Good observation.

@kysse strikes me as warm, interesting and easy to talk to. I don't see why a brother is struggling. Makes me wonder if he is quick in other departments too???

wacheni mocene. Mine is to all brothers.



You know there's nothing worse than clueless guy.
Today I literally ran away from one of them.Kukimbia pretending that I was late.

See if you stop to speak to someone, have some content.You made them stop not the other way round.

Aaah .. quick to judge ....until you walk in a man's shoes. Have you ever really liked a guy, wanted him badly enough and yet you were insecure about him, didn't know how he would react if you made a move or dropped hints? What did you do?
You have the luxury of being pursued, men don't. They have to stare down the fear and even possible public humiliation...sometimes the words get stuck in the throat!!