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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/26/2009 Posts: 1,793
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a deep breath won't do you any harm.....let's go....hiiiiiiiiiiiiii hoooooooooooooo ×5..........and you can't afford to live with grudges,move on and carry no hard feelings. For the kid...its not the best experience growing up without knowing his/her biological father,even if the man you marry will be the best daddy to that kid,something will always smell amiss. ..curiosity will override....Even Obama came knocking and made us proud. don't expect anyone to act like your favourite grandmother in wanting what's best for you.
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/4/2008 Posts: 394
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'Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.' Martin Luther King 'There are plenty more fish in the sea,I just don't have a very effective net' Doors of opportunity don't just open , they have to be unlocked & it's up to you to turn the knob.
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/12/2009 Posts: 21
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Ooo God! Help me not to hate and to be able to forgive but not to forget.Am findind it hard as a human being but to be able to continue living a happy life in this world,i have got no choice.In this cruel world which is natural unfair,every moment i try to do good,i just find myself doing bad things.But now Lord,in the midst of challanges,i have to survive,for you to be able to forgive my sins,i have to forgive others; for me to be loved by others and find joy in this life,i have to learn not to hate but to be happy ; Ngumu sana,Yes there is a mountain,a very big one ahead of me,give me the strength and courage to climb it.God gracious hear Me!
Life is more stict than a teacher,a teacher teaches a lesson&takes an exam but life does the reverse!
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/23/2007 Posts: 441
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be strong and you shall make it gal. many of us- like me- were brought up with great difficulties by single moms and we are doing just fine.
with determination,hard work,stamina,prayers,and some bit of good luck....you can't go wrong!
bY aNy MeAns NecEsSaRy.....
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/7/2008 Posts: 49
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That kid shall be a big bless in your life,take great care of her/him
invest slowly on a monthly basis dont wait till ati u get millions
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/11/2008 Posts: 134
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I dint see the actual story but what i can say is you did the right thing girl by having yourself tested. HIV is something that shutters lives of so many kenyans and leaves behind families emotionally wrecked! Knowing your status is very important cause once you get tested its very unlikely you can afford to have sex without protection cause you dont know the status of the other person. Chances are you will have to persuade your next partner to get tested if he wants the 'peremende bila karatasi'
Jay
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/25/2009 Posts: 56
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Hi New member, Believe me you can only get the best advise among this people. Pls take good care of your unborn baby and yaself,a mature person that tells you to abort in this age and era by no means should not be for keeps. Further,an untrustworthy person in this era of AIDS will only bring misery to you. Be wise and make the right decision,women have a sixth sense and if it says no,pls listen to it. Life is too short for experiments. 'Do all the good you can,by all the means you can,in all the ways you can, in all the places you can,to all the people you can,as long as ever you can'. John Wesley English Preacher (1703-1791) 'Do all the good you can,by all the means you can,in all the ways you can,
in all the places you can,to all the people you can,as long as ever you can'.
John Wesley
English Preacher (1703-1791)
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/12/2009 Posts: 21
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@Lyra
You call him a mature person,i donno,i also thought so being that he is in his early 30s,but when he opted for a short cut in the name of abortion,i can no longer use the term mature.Mature people are those who are ready to take responsibility for their actions.He would want to be viewed as a virgin who has maintained his faith till the wedding day.A holy brother who has known no woman in his life which is totally opposite.
I had also wished the same,i tried to perservere and do my parents proud by breaking the norm of the day.I wanted to be faithful to my God and bring Glory by keeping myself pure.Unfortunately,it has gone with the wind.But unlike him,i have to suffer shame by going through it for 9months till the day i will bring my baby to this world.Let people know that i am no longer the holy gal they used to know.I would not want pple to view me like an angel but let them know that am a human being like any other.
One thing am sure of is that there is a purpose for everything happening under the sun.God new that one day such a thing will happen to me so to me its an accident but to God its not news.He has a reason for this.
I know a good %age of marriages always take place when the woman is pegged and they realise that the solution is to start staying together.But in my case,am not seeing myself pushing this guy to be my husband because of what happened,i still dont know what he will ever do to regain my trust.Its that hard but that is the reality,he must be very lucky since he can run away with it.
Life is more stict than a teacher,a teacher teaches a lesson&takes an exam but life does the reverse!
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/11/2008 Posts: 134
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Well i reckon you did or are doing the right thing dear. The fact that you have accepted your fate from this obtuse ruffian who did this to you,means that the healing process can begin. Being in denial would have deepened your misery and pro long your pain. Now that you've accepted yourself the way you are,move forward put your head up and thank God the tests turned negative hence you have a future you can plan for.
Talking of not knowing what he can possibly do to win your trust is something you shouldnt think about. He does not deserve a second chance at all. You may have been vulnerable and he took advantage of you,he put you in trouble and decided to jump ship by taking the easy way out. Leaving you holding the burning end of the stick,very unfair indeed. Remember if someone fools you one time,its their fault; but if they do it the second time,then its your fault!
Jay
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/2/2006 Posts: 519
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Forget HIV/AIDS,your anger and hatred for this guy will destroy you much faster.
I can bet you that as you hurt so much over spilt milk the guy's continuing to enjoy his life (mature or not). You'll end up teaching your kids how to hate instead of love.
You'll discover like I did that blaming someone else for your predicaments won't help.
Bright and interesting people talk about ideas.
Those of average intelligence talk about things.
Stupid people talk about other people.
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