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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/25/2007 Posts: 1,574
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99% of married women would NEVER leave. Even if the husband ran them over with a bulldozer. Abuse, neglect, incompatibility and infidelity will not make them walk away. It's something I have never really understood. Maybe most ladies are afraid of being alone (not married). Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/12/2008 Posts: 1,178
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Angelica _ann wrote:sheri wrote:@Magigi they no longer "bolt" they enjoy it under your nose. Why bolt after 10-20 years of marriage. Do more research bro' #WORD# Jessoo! but ou have missed the gist of Magigi's question by a whole otoyo
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/17/2007 Posts: 1,345
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sheri wrote:@Magigi they no longer "bolt" they enjoy it under your nose. Why bolt after 10-20 years of marriage. Do more research bro' Hi ndio ukweli but only after a long period of union.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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jguru wrote:99% of married women would NEVER leave.
Even if the husband ran them over with a bulldozer. Abuse, neglect, incompatibility and infidelity will not make them walk away.
It's something I have never really understood. Maybe most ladies are afraid of being alone (not married). Disagree, with the galchild empowerment thing, we are likely to see more divorces and separations. Otherwise we will have many couples sleeping in separate bedrooms, man eats fish huko inje while the wife has an otoyo somewhere for the sake of kids. But with more ladies embracing single motherhood, women will leave their husbands for even the minutest of reasons. However most dependent women will stay put, most independent ones will not get married in the first place
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 7,081 Location: Kenya
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sheri wrote:@Magigi they no longer "bolt" they enjoy it under your nose. Why bolt after 10-20 years of marriage. Do more research bro' ...@Sheri...'It' is not the only thing...You can as well be getting it outside and live miserably with your man!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/17/2007 Posts: 1,345
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CLK wrote:jguru wrote:99% of married women would NEVER leave.
Even if the husband ran them over with a bulldozer. Abuse, neglect, incompatibility and infidelity will not make them walk away.
It's something I have never really understood. Maybe most ladies are afraid of being alone (not married). Disagree, with the galchild empowerment thing, we are likely to see more divorces and separations. Otherwise we will have many couples sleeping in separate bedrooms, man eats fish huko inje while the wife has an otoyo somewhere for the sake of kids. But with more ladies embracing single motherhood, women will leave their husbands for even the minutest of reasons. However most dependent women will stay put, most independent ones will not get married in the first place We are talking about signs/reasons of leaving. Not reasons for not getting married! 
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 1,885
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CLK wrote:Bigchick wrote:Let me give you the first one.
When she becomes indifferent. Does not care when you come late, does not go the extra mile to make you happy and does not consult you on many issues.Talking reduces to monosylabs.etc
Kumeanza kuharibika. Totally agree with this one, a man needs to worry if the nagging wife suddenly becomes too nice. Does not ask why you came late or suddenly she wakes up at 3am to warm your food and run your bath. She is seeing another Otoyo, she is about to bolt or you are on your way to makueni..... However sometimes hata ukimwambia unaenda, haoni wala kuamini, I know a couple that used to fight alot, and the friends and parents got involved, remember one of the brothers akiambia huyo jamaa the wife will leave if he continues behaving the way he did, guy chest thumping said hakuna mahali huyo mwanamke ataenda, nani ataoa mwanamke kama huyo? she loves me, unknown to him, chic had already rented her own house was slowly furnishing it. One day aliongea mbaya and the lady called a taxi in the middle of the night, never to look back. Most stupid part is the guy went begging her to return. Men, treat her nicely if you really care, otherwise there is someone out there dying to do it: treat her nicely. a friend of yours?
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Buster wrote:CLK wrote:jguru wrote:99% of married women would NEVER leave.
Even if the husband ran them over with a bulldozer. Abuse, neglect, incompatibility and infidelity will not make them walk away.
It's something I have never really understood. Maybe most ladies are afraid of being alone (not married). Disagree, with the galchild empowerment thing, we are likely to see more divorces and separations. Otherwise we will have many couples sleeping in separate bedrooms, man eats fish huko inje while the wife has an otoyo somewhere for the sake of kids. But with more ladies embracing single motherhood, women will leave their husbands for even the minutest of reasons. However most dependent women will stay put, most independent ones will not get married in the first place We are talking about signs/reasons of leaving. Not reasons for not getting married! Daktari was trying to insinuate that they will not leave so hakuna haja ya kushughulika na signs and i was trying to tell him those who will and those who will not leave.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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mkenyan wrote:CLK wrote:Bigchick wrote:Let me give you the first one.
When she becomes indifferent. Does not care when you come late, does not go the extra mile to make you happy and does not consult you on many issues.Talking reduces to monosylabs.etc
Kumeanza kuharibika. Totally agree with this one, a man needs to worry if the nagging wife suddenly becomes too nice. Does not ask why you came late or suddenly she wakes up at 3am to warm your food and run your bath. She is seeing another Otoyo, she is about to bolt or you are on your way to makueni..... However sometimes hata ukimwambia unaenda, haoni wala kuamini, I know a couple that used to fight alot, and the friends and parents got involved, remember one of the brothers akiambia huyo jamaa the wife will leave if he continues behaving the way he did, guy chest thumping said hakuna mahali huyo mwanamke ataenda, nani ataoa mwanamke kama huyo? she loves me, unknown to him, chic had already rented her own house was slowly furnishing it. One day aliongea mbaya and the lady called a taxi in the middle of the night, never to look back. Most stupid part is the guy went begging her to return. Men, treat her nicely if you really care, otherwise there is someone out there dying to do it: treat her nicely. a friend of yours? Hehehheehhe, unfortunately i am yet to try this overrated thing called marriage, and i have been warned not to try since my attitude towards it is wrong and i would be in for a rude shock if i did..
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/21/2013 Posts: 2,841 Location: Here
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Bigchick wrote:Let me give you the first one.
When she becomes indifferent. Does not care when you come late, does not go the extra mile to make you happy and does not consult you on many issues.Talking reduces to monosylabs.etc
Kumeanza kuharibika. Reminds me of this quote: “ The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.” - Elie Wiesel. Life is like playing a violin solo in public and learning the instrument as one goes on.
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