Nditto.....they always seem to be balling!!

Larry Asego covering for Maina yesterday had that discussion with King'ang'i on Classic, i wish it was MK on the show!!!!

Reading Binyavanga's article sent my mind to Gandhi's relationship with Manuben, the young girl who lived with him and served him towards his last days.

The girl refused to marry, and is said to have died 'a lonely spinster'. And she called 'Bapu' her mother. Here was Gandhi taking a sexual twist, and in his Spiritual quest, he turns into his own sexuality. And the consequence of these 'experiments' was as mixed as homosexuality, or even heterosexuality. In fact, I find it plausible that heterosexuality and homosexuality and all other forms of sexuality 'cause' each other.

I have met accounts of Muslim rulers who kept boys for their pleasure, and Prophets engaging in sexual behavior that at one time or the other has engendered censure.

And in equal measure have these rulers and Prophets and Sages prohibited certain forms of sexual expression.

Each Civilization has to decide on how Sexuality has to be understood and expressed.

And right now, people are getting out of closets to engage others in a conversation on how to look at sexuality. Crises in the Catholic church, and the Church in general reveal that the meaning of Sex and Sexual expression is in doubt.

Most of us here seem to be leaning on a 'don't ask don't tell' policy. A policy that has failed to work even in America. And why did it fail? Let's not even start thinking that 'gayism' is a Western matter and that it's a stranger to Africa.

This matter is shaking the foundations of Man, and unfortunately honesty and truth are difficult to find. Or when found, difficult to contemplate. But now even government is shaken, and anarchy, and perhaps misanthropy is imminent.

Everyone must come out of the closet if humanity is to survive. Even the heterosexual monogamist shown by @butterflyke should come out of the closet and admit that he not only can't speak for his wife, but that he can't justify himself by disregarding sex and sexuality.

I for one do not care if he is gay or not. If my kid came and told me he is gay I quite honestly would not know how to react. Maybe ask him if he uses protection. I do not know, some of these things still sound foreign to me. I am sure many of you feel the same.

A different view point(copy pasted From FB)

"Not me. I like gay men. They reduce competition. I would only hate gay men if I was gay. Bastards increasing competition. I think only repressed gay people are homophobes. Self hate and all that."

Yes, I used to be homophobic. Not anymore. They are just like you. Some are better human beings than you will ever be.

Stop living in your cocoon. The world is round. There are square pegs. You might be one of them. Just give us time, we can come up with a way that makes you the square peg in our round hole.