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King G wrote:CLK wrote:washiku wrote:I have never understood what people, esp people with families, do in bars at 3am.  someone shares my sentiments, but most Kenyans think its okay... There is no man who doesnot cheat, let you not be lied to. Even while walking hand in hand, there brain is always engaged to look and absorb the other beauties around. So it doesnot have to be in bed. Hata wapo mukitembea Kenya Cinema, Kencom, Yaya, Galeria, Nakumatt, the roving eye is always at work ...... @King G, my issue is not even about cheating, but a man with a wife and kids being at black diamond till 3am has a serious problem. Either a drinking one or a serious one at home. But again i think it feels nice to assume everyone is a thief when you are one, comfort in the masses si ndio?? Speak for yourself, i am sure it cannot be that bad, can it?
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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jaggernaut wrote:CLK wrote:washiku wrote:I have never understood what people, esp people with families, do in bars at 3am. someone shares my sentiments, but most Kenyans think its okay... The spouse should ask herself where she has failed ie what makes the man to choose to be at the pub at 3am rather than be with her at home. Blame game huanzia hapa, and this is so old fashioned, that a guy who has always been sleeping in the bar will suddenly stop when he gets married? because most likely he met the wife, pretended to be a gentleman but cannot control himself when it comes to drinking? We have learned that men do not change, so if he is the bar type, you marry him he continues living in the bar in the name of hanging out with the boys or discussing biashara, disgrace.. Do you know even the sharpest and wisest of men become useless under the influence? hata hajui ni saa ngapi because he cannot control how much he drinks. Seriously, with the Nairobi life ya middle crass, you wake up so early to beat traffic, so probably your kids dont get to see you in the morning, and you go home at 3 am on weekends? Labda JT ni tofauti, he is not middle crass, could probably afford to drop his kids in school and pick them up, put them to bed and go partying with the wife till morning.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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jaggernaut wrote:CLK wrote:washiku wrote:I have never understood what people, esp people with families, do in bars at 3am. someone shares my sentiments, but most Kenyans think its okay... The spouse should ask herself where she has failed ie what makes the man to choose to be at the pub at 3am rather than be with her at home. I have heard married women say they dont mind the days the men go out with the boys, 'it means hakuna kusumbuliwa' so its not like the women gie a hoot whether you slept in the drainage, they can fend for themselves, cant they?? People getting married for all the wrong reasons. Seriously even if the wife wanted to resolve whatever issue, atakuja kwa bar ndio mdiscuss? men burying their heads in the sand when marriages go south...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2012 Posts: 3,855 Location: Othumo
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It is not like everyday we are in a pub but you can drink everyday if you want to. that said as per my experience on Fridays the time between 9pm and 3 am is normally squeezed into like 2 normal hours - needs to be invetigated. And that call of uko papi na nani? is always annoying ... Watoto bado ni wetu na tunawalea poa. @CLK, there are many good @washikus out there who will come for you, when the time is ripe. Thieves
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/17/2009 Posts: 3,583 Location: Kenya
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King G wrote:It is not like everyday we are in a pub but you can drink everyday if you want to. that said as per my experience on Fridays the time between 9pm and 3 am is normally squeezed into like 2 normal hours - needs to be invetigated. And that call of uko papi na nani? is always annoying ...
Watoto bado ni wetu na tunawalea poa.
@CLK, there are many good @washikus out there who will come for you, when the time is ripe. I believe an individuals life moves in stages, kuna stage ya loud music, clubs and drinking just for showboating. lakini a 30+ individual still indulging in the same lifestyle shows kuna shida ama they missed that stage. or its just me, who finds it too labouring at my age.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/9/2009 Posts: 2,003
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An occasional outing with boys does no one hurm!
And no ones plans to be out till 3am. At 11.30 you want to go home...the next minute its 2.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2012 Posts: 3,855 Location: Othumo
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radio wrote:An occasional outing with boys does no one hurm!
And no ones plans to be out till 3am. At 11.30 you want to go home...the next minute its 2 in the am.  Thieves
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/14/2007 Posts: 4,152
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CLK wrote:
Blame game huanzia hapa, and this is so old fashioned, that a guy who has always been sleeping in the bar will suddenly stop when he gets married? because most likely he met the wife, pretended to be a gentleman but cannot control himself when it comes to drinking? We have learned that men do not change, so if he is the bar type, you marry him he continues living in the bar in the name of hanging out with the boys or discussing biashara, disgrace..
Do you know even the sharpest and wisest of men become useless under the influence? hata hajui ni saa ngapi because he cannot control how much he drinks.
I don't think so, not everyone who drinks is as irresponsible and useless as you think. From your statement its fair to conclude that you don't drink or you've never taken alcohol. I think most married men who regularly drink till 3 or 4 am probably do so because kuna shida/balaa nyumbani but there's nothing wrong with once in a while having a late night drink with the boys.....it also doesn't mean ati you've neglected your family. As for JT's case well i don't think a married man is his late 30's should really be spending most of his time hanging around clubs such as Black diamond, those sort of clubs are usually frequented by watu wako campus and people still in the 20's. There are so many clubs around with mature crowds where you can hang out and even answer a call comfortably without mambo ya kusema "tuma sms"!.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/9/2008 Posts: 5,389
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nakujua wrote:King G wrote:It is not like everyday we are in a pub but you can drink everyday if you want to. that said as per my experience on Fridays the time between 9pm and 3 am is normally squeezed into like 2 normal hours - needs to be invetigated. And that call of uko papi na nani? is always annoying ...
Watoto bado ni wetu na tunawalea poa.
@CLK, there are many good @washikus out there who will come for you, when the time is ripe. I believe an individuals life moves in stages, kuna stage ya loud music, clubs and drinking just for showboating. lakini a 30+ individual still indulging in the same lifestyle shows kuna shida ama they missed that stage. or its just me, who finds it too labouring at my age. What about those 70+ yr old tourists i see in clubs enjoying themselves till very late while accompanied by 20yr old mwendes? Could be true that life starts at 40.
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/4/2007 Posts: 656
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May be the US had a hand in it The way I am
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