I respect single women with kids. They had an option to abort but did not.
I don't respect the men who neglect their flesh n' blood. And believe me there's no excuse even the condom bursting.

But ladies make sure before you patia a guy that he's in a stage where he wants a kid and not just fun. We know some chics try to funga jamas with kids.

ili iwe funzo...

@ pablo....ati nini?

I think from the below discussions,it is safe to conclude that it can only work if the father is not in the picture,but if he is there,it will always be competition all the time.

I will praise thee,O Lord my God,with all my heart: And I will glorify thy name forever more. Psalms 86:12

I had a 'relationship' with someone who had a daughter.

First the whole explanation around the kid was dodgy. 'I didn't love her but slept with her' 'Entrapment' and finally 'I wanted to marry her but my parents refused' - I do believe at 30 you really cannot use your parents opinion as an excuse.

The next bit was that the relationship with mother of the baby was ambiguous (his term for her was 'baby mama' which I find a tad offensive). He paid her bills (understandably as she was making much less) but sorting out water problems at her rented house I thought should not have been his responsibility.

But it all collapsed on the fact that we do not think/reason in sync and not that he had a daughter.


Disguised Opportunity?

So many different opinions...which i all respect...!


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