brav wrote:thanks alot,
@Mukiri he just slept didnt wake up docs called it SID I google it and got ..
SIDIm still digging more info..
But I am also trying to figure out how to deal with the other kids.. how they understand and accept the death etc.. and also to reassure them...
I got this too:
http://www.babycenter.co...er-about-death_67896.bc
Be strong Brav and thank God for the 5 months you shared.I know its difficult but as it is said there is a reason for everything.
I lost my smallchick in January and as you say the issue is dealing with the other kids.
I thought I had done my best and succeeded in helping the other kids accept and move on till i went through my small gals composition about a month ago.She had written about her family and said in part
"We are two children but should be three.God took away our baby brother and he did not allow us to see him.He took him from the hospital and i dont know why.I want mum to born another brother"
It did hit me that they never healed completely and I got some work to do.
Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.