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brav
#1 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 11:08:59 AM
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Time really flies, so fast, a day like today, last year was the worst day of my life, everything came to a standstill, when our bravlet, took a final bow, and left without even a goodbye we know in heaven he's rejoicing. and here we shall praise Gods name as we remember him...

I choose not to be angry for the time I have not been with him but thank God for the 5 months we had him in our lives ... Lord give the strength and wisdom to be there for the rest of the bravlets
Siringi
#2 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 11:14:08 AM
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Take heart ndugu. Good that you can praise God in times like these. May He give you the strength you pray for.
"😖😡KQ makes money for everyone except the shareholder 😏😏 " overheard in Wazua
Mukiri
#3 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 11:24:11 AM
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God could be using you to pass a message to His people.

What did he die of? Is there anything you can do to help prevent the death of another child, maybe from what your experience taught you? Maybe in doing so, you honor the memory of the poor soul?

When some of us yap yap here about health issues, whilst others choose to make a mockery of it, we might be talking from painful experiences.

Proverbs 19:21
brav
#4 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 11:40:27 AM
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thanks alot,

@Mukiri he just slept didnt wake up docs called it SID I google it and got ..

SID

Im still digging more info..


But I am also trying to figure out how to deal with the other kids.. how they understand and accept the death etc.. and also to reassure them...

I got this too:
http://www.babycenter.co...er-about-death_67896.bc

Mukiri
#5 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 12:06:57 PM
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Joined: 7/11/2012
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My heart goes out to you. Share the info you gather with all and sundry. I pray that the Lord will give you peace.

Once when getting a hair-cut in Kenyatta Market, a guy walked in. He was carrying a bundle all wrapped up it was difficult to tell what it was. He asked the barber if he had a charger he could use to charge his phone.

His demeanor was a defeated one. He looked like a man who'd asked that question to a few people and got cold answers. To get into a market asking for a charger...

His phone conversation and answers to questions thereafter almost made me cry! His child got sick at night. He was from Dagoretti, he waited till morning, apparently coz of logistics; safety and transport, to go to hospital. By the time he reached Mbagathi Hospital and was attended to, his child had passed on. He was calling to let the wife know.

Proverbs 19:21
wazua
#6 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 12:11:57 PM
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Dear @brav,

Truly moving and true courage on the part of your family. Even so, the mention of other kids and your better-half are reasons to be thankful.

God bless
The Wazua spirit
Magigi
#7 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 12:14:11 PM
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Location: Kenya
@Brav...Pole sana...It feels awful..... Check this out Pick Myself Up
King G
#8 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 12:38:53 PM
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We pray with you. I do remember vividly your two threads about this event last year and the prayer day at Catho, Buru. God will provide the grace for you & family.

Pray Pray Pray Pray Pray
Thieves
Bigchick
#9 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 12:46:35 PM
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Joined: 2/8/2013
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brav wrote:
thanks alot,

@Mukiri he just slept didnt wake up docs called it SID I google it and got ..

SID

Im still digging more info..


But I am also trying to figure out how to deal with the other kids.. how they understand and accept the death etc.. and also to reassure them...

I got this too:
http://www.babycenter.co...er-about-death_67896.bc



Be strong Brav and thank God for the 5 months you shared.I know its difficult but as it is said there is a reason for everything.

I lost my smallchick in January and as you say the issue is dealing with the other kids.

I thought I had done my best and succeeded in helping the other kids accept and move on till i went through my small gals composition about a month ago.She had written about her family and said in part

"We are two children but should be three.God took away our baby brother and he did not allow us to see him.He took him from the hospital and i dont know why.I want mum to born another brother"

It did hit me that they never healed completely and I got some work to do.



Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
Am
#10 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 12:54:31 PM
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You are strong, and I hope that God Provides more strength.

There is Power in Prayer @Brav.

Just did a Prayer for you and rest of the family.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..
brav
#11 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 1:05:45 PM
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@KingG It was sometime back this year (june 15th) the day was his birthday, we held a mass for him,

@Bigchic pole sana for your loss too, children are very hard to understand, and it seems it takes time for them too to heal...

@AM, Wazua,@magigi,Mukiri, King G, Mukiri... and all here thanks, I feel much stronger somehow thanks for your words of encouragement
maka
#12 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 1:06:37 PM
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Joined: 4/22/2010
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Location: Nairobi
1st Corinthians 15:43
Our bodies are buried in brokness,but they will be raised in glory.
They are buried in weakness,but they will be raised in strength...
possunt quia posse videntur
Mukiri
#13 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 1:20:28 PM
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@Bigchick.. not you tooSad What was it?

Proverbs 19:21
Magigi
#14 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 1:23:44 PM
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Joined: 3/31/2008
Posts: 7,081
Location: Kenya
Bigchick wrote:
brav wrote:
thanks alot,

@Mukiri he just slept didnt wake up docs called it SID I google it and got ..

SID

Im still digging more info..


But I am also trying to figure out how to deal with the other kids.. how they understand and accept the death etc.. and also to reassure them...

I got this too:
http://www.babycenter.co...er-about-death_67896.bc



Be strong Brav and thank God for the 5 months you shared.I know its difficult but as it is said there is a reason for everything.

I lost my smallchick in January and as you say the issue is dealing with the other kids.

I thought I had done my best and succeeded in helping the other kids accept and move on till i went through my small gals composition about a month ago.She had written about her family and said in part

"We are two children but should be three.God took away our baby brother and he did not allow us to see him.He took him from the hospital and i dont know why.I want mum to born another brother"

It did hit me that they never healed completely and I got some work to do.

Pole...That is the spirit of moving forward...Share with @Brav
Bigchick
#15 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 1:58:18 PM
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Joined: 2/8/2013
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Mukiri wrote:
@Bigchick.. not you tooSad What was it?



Nimepoa.

Complications of premature birth.
Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
Euge
#16 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 2:14:07 PM
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Courage Brav & Bigchick. God be with you and your family
Lord, thank you!
Wakandi
#17 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 2:27:23 PM
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My prayer goes out to Brav, Bigchick and your families. It must be very difficult but trust God to restore your joy and peace.
washiku
#18 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 2:27:39 PM
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Angels Bravlet n small chick,
God looked around his garden
and found an empty place,
He then looked down upon the earth
and saw your smiling faces.
He put His arms around you
and lifted you to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best.

It broke our hearts to lose you
but you didn't go alone,
for part of us went with you
the day God called you home.
Thro your loving paros, Brav n Bigchick, you became a members of this Wazua family,
And even gained new names, BRAVELET & SMALLCHICK.

Ours eyes look up to you in heaven
Thinking of embracing you.
Communicating our love to you.
Remembering your love and gentleness.
Remembering your courage, strength and determination.
Treasured memories of our time together here on earth.
Knowing you are safe, and happy now forever.

You are home in heaven, dear ones; oh, so happy and so bright!
There is a perfect joy and beauty in the everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed;
You are now at peace forever, safely home in heaven at last.

Surely, You fought the good fight, You finished the race,and kept the faith.
Sleep well babies, till we meet again.
Dear angels...May His Perpetual light shine upon you, and eternal rest may He grant you.

Dear God, console Brav's and Big Chick's families,
and give them the strength and courage,
To continue trusting you, even when things dont really add up.
Like Job, may they always run unto you, and praise you in all circumstances.
May they thank you for the little time they shared with their kids...

AMEN

McReggae
#19 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 2:47:02 PM
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@Brav and @Bigchick, you have been strong, keep the faith!!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
maka
#20 Posted : Tuesday, November 12, 2013 2:53:31 PM
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Joined: 4/22/2010
Posts: 11,522
Location: Nairobi
Bigchick wrote:
brav wrote:
thanks alot,

@Mukiri he just slept didnt wake up docs called it SID I google it and got ..

SID

Im still digging more info..


But I am also trying to figure out how to deal with the other kids.. how they understand and accept the death etc.. and also to reassure them...

I got this too:
http://www.babycenter.co...er-about-death_67896.bc



Be strong Brav and thank God for the 5 months you shared.I know its difficult but as it is said there is a reason for everything.

I lost my smallchick in January and as you say the issue is dealing with the other kids.

I thought I had done my best and succeeded in helping the other kids accept and move on till i went through my small gals composition about a month ago.She had written about her family and said in part

"We are two children but should be three.God took away our baby brother and he did not allow us to see him.He took him from the hospital and i dont know why.I want mum to born another brother"

It did hit me that they never healed completely and I got some work to do.





Is there really complete healing?Death is one thing that is hard to fathom...the pain always comes back...
possunt quia posse videntur
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