seppuku wrote:
Precisely the problem. A wise man knows how to temper his niceness with occasional mania - whether real or faked. It seems logical that a woman would want a decent, nice and loving man who never quarrels or raises his voice. Informal statistics have demonstrated otherwise. Uungwana ikizidi ina-attract ujeuri.
Me thinks this applies in all aspects of life. From home to here in wazua. Once in a while unabweka people know you are not a pushover.
Niceness is naturally taken advantage of and any nice person will need to once in a while hit the roof or be firm/set boundaries that are non-negotiable.
That's life...