@pretty...am 32,and u? The Hague...or Local Triburnal ama TJRC.

@mlefu..nani aqmekushow marriage cures the 'dipping' disease? n infact ur supporting me....wacha watu watumbukize vilivyo b4 marriage..maybe that will reduce adultery...but it cant eliminate it. i say 30 yrs becoz,on average most jamaaz under 30 bado wana utoto..plus they r not on sound financial footing... top cat

funny question just like the famous... 'how long is a piece of string?' or 'why did the chicken cross the road?' one could give a million answers to these sort of questions. to answer you,there's no definite 'magic' age of when to get married. you just have to be ready financially,mentally and emotionally. the relationship has to have matured and you should not have those lingering doubts. these qualities will differ from person to person! and please note: there's no perfect marrige,actually- that's when reality sinks in and real life begins! but if after 5+ years she/he is still that beautiful and caring person you met many years ago,you 'may' just be on the right path. bY aNy MeAns NecEsSaRy.....

I once befriended one absolutely beautiful queen a few years back....game yake ilikuwa juu tu sana,n we had loads of fun n a marriage icon popped in ma f***ed up mind....Just then,s*** hit the proverbial fan n mimi huyooo mpaka nanyuki. Some older married SOB took advantage,lied 2her that he was more single than the sun n promised her marriage....Now she is back 2square 1,a bit older but looks beat up....so pretty,mimi ni yule yule... The only reason why some people are still alive is coz its illegal to shoot them!!

@pretty All you said is good. some of it out of either innocence and/or lack of experience. some are very misplaced. For example,i dont have to be more educated than my spouse for me to earn more. I just need to be alittle bit lucky. Example,I have many of my workmates(ladies) who earn more than their spouses and they are not necessarily more educated than them. Assuming you meet a guy who you fall in love,you happen to be an intelligent woman - so what do you do? hide your intelligent and start behaving like a blonde? most men i believe want an intelligent woman who they can hold a conversation with. Some like 'men like younger women' are relative. some prefer the 'maturity' in a woman not necessarily the number of years. A woman can be 'mature' at 20 while another still be 'immature'at 40 - you get it? if yo liten to me,i will tell you that you can wait till you are 50 and you will not be sure if the man is bad or good.... there are some signs that could alert you but 'being sure'? that i cant guarantee you. If you have someone who you believe is good for you,you can live with for the rest of your life,if you know you can take care of a family,then go for it! You seem so attached to your dad and as a parent,your dad will worry for you till his time to leave this world even if you will be 90 at the time coz you will always be his 'little angel daughter' to him. So go ahead gal,make your own decision that is good for you. One last thing,the problems that your parents experienced or are experiencing in their marriage life do not constitute a standard model of a marriage life. they have unique challenges just like any other family. you cant build your family like your parents because they are different people. if theirs was not perfect,try making yours perfect (perfection is never attained but you could land somewhere comfortable if you seek it) Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.