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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/26/2008 Posts: 2,097
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THIS NJERI SHOULD BE THE ONE TO BE TAKEN TO A REHAB OR FOR MARRIAGE COUNSELING. To me she is one of the many attention seekers just like tujuane girl - was it Atieno. "Never regret, if its good, its wonderful. If its bad, its experience."
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/31/2009 Posts: 743
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I have read her blog, her lessons and I wont judge her or David, only God can...I wish them well
Problems can get out of proportion, and not only in the wee small hours. Don't let the problems eclipse the Master. Let the Master eclipse the problems.
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/9/2011 Posts: 786 Location: Mashinani
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its called tough love Peace in our Homeland.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/17/2008 Posts: 23,365 Location: Nairobi
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In my village there is an old folk tale, "things of the home should never be made public, even when the man serves the meat,urinates on the bed or is impotent" but that's the traditional v modern woman. I've seen lots of relationship highs and lows splashed all over cyber space...is that the new way of "talking to the Aunties/Uncles"? Mkikosana na bwana na bibi, you "go for counselling" ..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2008 Posts: 4,449
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There are far too many narratives to this story. Let me pick on one. Faith. Her Christian faith. Follower of Christ and teachings in the Bible.
"Ephesians 5:33
King James Version (KJV)
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband."
So according to that scripture a wife should show "reverence" or "deep respect" to her husband. Is this act of hanging her husband on cyberspace for all and sundry an act of "reverence" or "deep respect" to her husband? Are there Biblical exceptions to this?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 3/26/2012 Posts: 1,182
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She will surely SAVE him in the furthest of vaults, never to touch him again.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/16/2007 Posts: 1,320
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ecstacy wrote:There are far too many narratives to this story. Let me pick on one. Faith. Her Christian faith. Follower of Christ and teachings in the Bible.
"Ephesians 5:33
King James Version (KJV)
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband."
So according to that scripture a wife should show "reverence" or "deep respect" to her husband. Is this act of hanging her husband on cyberspace for all and sundry an act of "reverence" or "deep respect" to her husband? Are there Biblical exceptions to this?
There are none. Quote:Ephesians 5:22-33
(NIV)
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. But this circus has nothing to do with Christianity or salvation. It has everything to do with money.
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/7/2013 Posts: 447 Location: Nairobi
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The world can never save a marriage...only the TWO people in it.... You cant win, unless you first begin....
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/24/2010 Posts: 637 Location: Nairobi
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The two are Partners in the same law firm and can't talk to one another.ISORAIT. The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 1/16/2007 Posts: 1,320
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This is some kind of new genre of entertainment.. i just wish they would keep the Bible and Christianity out of it. Discretion and privacy is out, fame and notoriety is in! This Njeri circus, My unspoken, Tujuane, Big Brother, to some degree slimpossible, maina kageni's morning show,shiko's busted etc all cashing in on gossip and the display of individuals private lives to all and sundry.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 1,883
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keraka wrote:The two are Partners in the same law firm and can't talk to one another.ISORAIT. they are not.
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/19/2012 Posts: 552
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ZZE123 wrote:Marriage is a very personal thing between two people.. once you put your dirty linen out to the public it will never work. Very true. Trying to Imagine Davids situation, what with the whole world knowing his marriage issues.No one should treat another human being to this kind of ridicule. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.... Leo Buscaglia
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/19/2012 Posts: 552
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 Meduza wrote:The world can never save a marriage...only the TWO people in it.... Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.... Leo Buscaglia
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/19/2009 Posts: 3,142
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Mtu Biz wrote:
This is some kind of new genre of entertainment.. i just wish they would keep the Bible and Christianity out of it.
Discretion and privacy is out, fame and notoriety is in!
This Njeri circus, My unspoken, Tujuane, Big Brother, to some degree slimpossible, maina kageni's morning show,shiko's busted etc all cashing in on gossip and the display of individuals private lives to all and sundry.
I feel violated for having allowed myself to read it. Indeed it has nothing to do with the Bible and Christianity. If it were she would have stood in the ways and asked for the old paths where the goodway is and walked therein and she would have found rest for her soul. But she would not.
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Crap 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/2/2009 Posts: 2,458 Location: Nairobi
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washiku wrote:Crap Said Washiku, the newly Wed...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2008 Posts: 4,449
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Scripture aside, it feels like she is undergoing feelings of ultimate betrayal. Her husband cheating on her with not one but two of his secretaries in succession all the while professing his love. If they work(ed) together as claimed elsewhere, for the hubby to have acted that way with subordinates is just a disgrace to say the least to her character.
She must have been made to look and now feel the public fool. I guess this is payback. Who is the bigger fool now?
She may just have opened a can of worms to her sympathetic following. Cheaters BEWARE!!
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/7/2010 Posts: 520 Location: Epicentre - Ngamia 1
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Quote:I wonder whether he ever imagined in his wildest dreams that I would do this; that is, write about everything that he did to me and what I know about him. I bet you he is as shocked at me as much as I am shocked at him.
In this season, I am no longer interested in David ever coming back to me.
There is no me for him to come back to.
I am so way ahead of him; I am out of his league.
He cannot come back to me; he can only catch up with me.
To catch up with me, he has to die first like I did. I believe that I am living life after death.
I don't know why i even opened the rink.NKT! Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs - Farrah Gray.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 7/5/2010 Posts: 2,061 Location: Nairobi
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She should have written a book, made a buck or two, sort of like Mariama Ba's So Long A Letter,...then gone on to see a counsellor.
Going on about it on a public blog will provide some amusement to some hardened types (I mean, seriously, we have all been cheated on), wring one or two tears from the bleeding hearts, then very soon become old hat and her collective audience will move on to the newest, most shocking drama.
And then all that stigma and pity will follow her for months with people whispering every where she goes 'Is that the woman whose husband .....poor her'
Idiotic.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi
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Another angle to look at it from... Culture shock. You marry a man whose culture allows him to have several wives because you love him. Once the honeymoon phase wears out, the reality hits, HARD Kidero style. Life is short. Live passionately.
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