This is a very toxic personality. Toxic people enjoy their good moments alone. They will not involve you when they land their dream spouse, when they land their dream job, when they make new exciting friends. They will not call you when they are having a party. They will not bother with you after they have just been paid.
When problems start, they want to make the whole world part of their problems. They want to invite you to the burials not the parties. They expect you to share in their sorrows. They can't keep away from you when they are broke.
If you don't want to share in their sorrows, they make you feel guilty.
IMO the lady is a toxic personality. Never shared her sweet courtship with David, epic landings, blessed union(with child) but now wants us to be part of their infidelities, unsatisfied emotional yearnings, frustrated airports and pyschological revenges.
Hapa ni counselling au divorce itasaidia tu!
Life is short. Live passionately.