Coolbull wrote:We live in a world of numerous studies. One weird one is that stressed men are attracted to heavy women.
..by the way..what does heavy mean? Who has the power to determine who is light or heavy.
African men esp prefer big women for several reasons eg warmth,love,food,health lots of babies,nurturing,happiness etc etc
Women too go for Big men cz they signify Vigour Status,Authority,Good health/physical fitness Protection,Care,wealth etc etc.
Does size really determine the kind of relationship one has with her partner?
IMHO? No.Maturity does.
Sexual relationship- No. Skill does
Dealing with people- No. Attitude,experiences and upbringing does.
Ability to mother,father, cook,nurture,provide- Of course not. Never has.
How about handling stress? This is where Faith/beliefs come in because one's reaction to stress is based on what they believe works for them.Size here is completely irrelevant as stress affects the mind before it manifests in the physical body through weight gain or loss among many others.
If one partner is not emotionally stable and strong enough to address what disturbs their minds, then fat or no fat,dashboard or none,big behind or not,beauty or no beauty,natural hair or wig,money or no money,food or no food,stress won't go away and this is why I think so; stress affects one's body weight,but body weight doesn't alter stress levels-maybe guru/rankaz cn help here. -big/small size is just a false notion to soothe the stressed man.
Lastly,just so you know,the small women act kali as comouflage to prevent bullying and mistreatment,a safe guard, cz people can be cruel if you let them focus on your size and step all over you.
Huko ndani ni jelly and it's not for the world.