@Kisses, these things happens every day. Impunity is not lying!

Efforts of years on focus on the Girl child have started bearing fruit..
a friend tells me of how they girls in a recent Big-4 interview outdid the boys (who were whimpering incoherent whimps)

sasa wasichana kama hao... good enough they are independent. But sasa wamekuwa 'Mitungi'. After we sang the equality chauvinism anthem, we forgot to remind the genders of their roles in society...

Watu wamevuta phangi Monday asubuhi na mapema!!!

There is nothing wrong with a woman drinking. the amount of such drink and the after effect is the problem. If one cant handle a drink, they need to keep off completely. what we should be talking about here is not "drinking". It is abusing the alcohol. What people do these days is "abusing the alcohol".... not just "drinking". When people say "lets go for a drink", it does not mean "lets go drink ourselves silly and pee on everyone and everything". Those are two different sentences.... Majority of us Kenyans, and not just women, go for a "drink" to "kill" themselves with it.... like there is no tomorrow.

And for those who seek wife material, my motherly advise is, a wife material has nothing to do with drinking or not..... it has everything to do with character. May be the "abusing of alcohol" helps you strike out the names faster but a woman "not drinking" is clearly not a ticket to a happy marriage.... If you want to be happy, marry a woman who respects you, not one who "loves" you. If i had a daughter, i'd tell her to marry a man who loves her.

During our days, if one slept will all and sundry, she would be a laughing stock and she'd not have many women worth their salt hanging out with her. because of this, many women strove to maintain a dignified life. And men were seen to have achieved alot if they married a "dignified" woman or if they managed to win her. These days, there are no such societal obligations. infact, sleeping with all and sundry is like the norm and an achievement. And not many men care to associate with "dignified" women.... so for the women, there is nothing much to loose anyway. She sleeps with Njoro today and Otieno will also be happy to sleep with her tomorrow. Kitambo, if you slept with one guy, the others would be very hesitant to touch you if they knew there was someone else. Lakini these days, even the guys themselves have been all over the place and back so what's the big deal who was where?