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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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Mukiri wrote:Impunity wrote:nostoppingthis wrote:rryyzz wrote:chepkel wrote:He sent me a text when he got home saying that he had a great time. And we have been having small talk through out the weekend. But he hasnt mentioned anything abut meeting again. Should I make a suggestion or will that make him feel like am pressuring him??? @Chepkel, good for you gal, looks like you both enjoyed each others company  . Please do not make a suggestion about meeting again, let this come from him. You making the suggestion will make the guy think you're desperate. Thats my thought, lets see what wazuans think. If you make a call for the 2nd meeting, he'll know he has your thong at you ankles ...and it won't be going up!! Maybe another thing will be going up  Allow the man to sweat it.... Wishing you all the best... There is a storo in the bible of a man whose shudren were dying of njaa (food njaa) yet in his silo he kept magunia za nafaka for a friend who went overseas for the kindu 10 years, I think the lord struck the man dead with a sword for the foolish behavior...u must satiate the njaa-thing and explain later, Wapi @Mukiri asaidie na hiyo verse.  The level of njaa in this case may not allow the man enough time to sweat it out...  The nerve!!  @Imp.. your sexual addiction and babyish excitement is repulsive Instead of answering the question why abuse someone?There is no harm in saying "...I don't know that verse..." and move on. I will forgive you anyway, I hope @lady admin will and Lord of host will follow queue. Ati pastor, okay. Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/21/2012 Posts: 1,739
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smano wrote:chepkel wrote:Impunity wrote:
Okay. So he ate very well na akashiba.
Sawa.
Washa hizo zako. Asanteni sana for all your advice. My njaa is still intact...in fact I think it has been made worse. But as you all advised, shuma haikulala ndani!!!! Now I need to know, how can I tell that this dude feels the same way as I do??? He will DEFINITELY CALL or chat you up (g-chat,whatsapp,FB messenger etc etc) if he's interested. If he doesn't call you within a week at least, look for a book by Greg Behrendt (google) coz you'll need it... @Smano. Sasa hii Kitabu Nayo Ni gani Jameni? I'm I the only one falling in love with this thread??? It is like the book of Proverbs..so edifying! Ni Kama Ndrama Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/21/2012 Posts: 1,739
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chepkel wrote:smano wrote:Impunity wrote:Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa. Actually kama ni mimi hivyo ndio ningekua nafikiria...@chepkel, please do not ignore what guy say here, it's important to hang around men who tell you how other men think, since wanaume ni wale wale... I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10. Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night. @Chepkel. This statement here Just got me thinking. What do u mean? What can you call "advances" and what cant u? How do you draw a line and say hii yenyewe ni advances na hii hapana advances? You said on a different post that you made sure he felt your body Curves so certainly, you did make some sort of advances. So, he stayed like a stone? If so, then hapo Kuna Shinda. Why Do I say Kuna Shinda, because a bull is a bull, both day and night, in rain of hot weather, always. Which makes me want to ask a question I should not ask, but I will - How old are you my dear Sister? Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/21/2012 Posts: 1,739
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Impunity wrote:Amores wrote:jguru wrote:chepkel wrote:I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10.
Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night.
At 4am, he went back home (y ou said he lives far from the city) or? I am late on this one!very strange.Yes,she said he lives out of town,I think there is lot that she is not saying( she does not have to)Alot of advice here and i agree with whoever said that she might have come across as too available,that was one long first date.So the guy had fun feeling the curves( her words),and he did not call,only sent messages,and has not asked for another date hmmmmm.Sounds like one of my boys.I would not hold my breath on this one. However,maybe I am reading too much to it. Since the curves were held and felt and gauged why do u expect a phone call for another date? May be the next phone call will be to attend a harambee for "my wedding" to another chikitita! @Impunity. I think that you have been too hard on the Poor lady @Chepkel. Kuwa Mpole mbloo. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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Am wrote:Impunity wrote:Amores wrote:jguru wrote:chepkel wrote:I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10.
Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night.
At 4am, he went back home (y ou said he lives far from the city) or? I am late on this one!very strange.Yes,she said he lives out of town,I think there is lot that she is not saying( she does not have to)Alot of advice here and i agree with whoever said that she might have come across as too available,that was one long first date.So the guy had fun feeling the curves( her words),and he did not call,only sent messages,and has not asked for another date hmmmmm.Sounds like one of my boys.I would not hold my breath on this one. However,maybe I am reading too much to it. Since the curves were held and felt and gauged why do u expect a phone call for another date? May be the next phone call will be to attend a harambee for "my wedding" to another chikitita! @Impunity. I think that you have been too hard on the Poor lady @Chepkel. Kuwa Mpole mbloo. Sawa dear, but you dont know more. I will go srow from now. Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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WHOOA! WAZUA INVESTIGATES.     @ Chepkel,sitakueleza mengi but here is my two cents. If the guy stayed sober throughout,made you laugh most of the time and vice versa,brought out the best of you in words,enjoyed a comfortable evening and didn't feel like parting ways with you,if the chemistry was there,if there was body language in the date,I mean if you both felt soo free with each other like you've met before then it is a sign of good things to come. If he doesn't call after, try not to.He simply had a nice time, but not interested in a relationship.Do not accept to be stringed along. lastly-Do not put your all your eggs in one basket if you are on search. some may hatch,others will crack while some may rot.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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Am wrote:chepkel wrote:smano wrote:Impunity wrote:Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa. Actually kama ni mimi hivyo ndio ningekua nafikiria...@chepkel, please do not ignore what guy say here, it's important to hang around men who tell you how other men think, since wanaume ni wale wale... I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10. Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night. @Chepkel. This statement here Just got me thinking. What do u mean? What can you call "advances" and what cant u? How do you draw a line and say hii yenyewe ni advances na hii hapana advances? You said on a different post that you made sure he felt your body Curves so certainly, you did make some sort of advances. So, he stayed like a stone? If so, then hapo Kuna Shinda. Why Do I say Kuna Shinda, because a bull is a bull, both day and night, in rain of hot weather, always. Which makes me want to ask a question I should not ask, but I will - How old are you my dear Sister? Hapo ni shini kidogo ya mbeot lakini coz she needs a lifetime partner her options are limited. Tunangoja jibu nonetheless!!!  Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/1/2009 Posts: 846
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Impunity wrote:nostoppingthis wrote:rryyzz wrote:chepkel wrote:He sent me a text when he got home saying that he had a great time. And we have been having small talk through out the weekend. But he hasnt mentioned anything abut meeting again. Should I make a suggestion or will that make him feel like am pressuring him??? @Chepkel, good for you gal, looks like you both enjoyed each others company . Please do not make a suggestion about meeting again, let this come from him. You making the suggestion will make the guy think you're desperate. Thats my thought, lets see what wazuans think. If you make a call for the 2nd meeting, he'll know he has your thong at you ankles ...and it won't be going up!! Maybe another thing will be going up Allow the man to sweat it.... Wishing you all the best... Men are their worst enemies...see how you make it hard for a man to get a wife?  Making hard for a poor guy to get laid...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/14/2009 Posts: 2,057
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Am wrote:chepkel wrote:smano wrote:Impunity wrote:Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa. Actually kama ni mimi hivyo ndio ningekua nafikiria...@chepkel, please do not ignore what guy say here, it's important to hang around men who tell you how other men think, since wanaume ni wale wale... I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10. Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night. @Chepkel. This statement here Just got me thinking. What do u mean? What can you call "advances" and what cant u? How do you draw a line and say hii yenyewe ni advances na hii hapana advances? You said on a different post that you made sure he felt your body Curves so certainly, you did make some sort of advances. So, he stayed like a stone? If so, then hapo Kuna Shinda. Why Do I say Kuna Shinda, because a bull is a bull, both day and night, in rain of hot weather, always. Which makes me want to ask a question I should not ask, but I will - How old are you my dear Sister? Andrew/Audrey? If you are an eagle don't hang around with chickens; chickens don't fly....
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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This testosterone laden thread karibu hata itoe Hisah from Investor. -it will be the beginning of the end. But the best thing is the fact that the advices help expose our diff mindsets when faced with such scenario. chep/many others can do anything they desire to do with anyone anytime and wazua will never get to hear of it.
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