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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/13/2006 Posts: 2,589
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butterflyke wrote:@smano, very sincere words and genuine advice hapo @chepkel, i am happy that the date went well. as @smano has said, we all have our short comings so please be prepared for that. in the meantime, i am sure you are wise enough to hear wazuans' opinions but at the end of the day things will depend on you, the guy...we the citizens of this republic are not in the guy's head (hiyo ya juu ama ya chini  ) so all the best and keep it realistic   Hio ingine nime igonre deliberately, hehe. BEER IS LIVING PROOF THAT GOD LOVES US AND WANTS US TO BE HAPPY!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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tnai9 wrote:chepkel wrote:He sent me a text when he got home saying that he had a great time. And we have been having small talk through out the weekend. But he hasnt mentioned anything abut meeting again. Should I make a suggestion or will that make him feel like am pressuring him??? He didn't call but texted??  Hope just that morning. Being with him till 4am wasn't so good and unless he is a very accommodating guy, many guys will feel that is the real you, the party type. Infact one may feel, coz its a date, you have not unleashed your true partying potential. Dont suggest a meeting, let it come from him. If the njaa for his voice for example is too much, you can just make an intelligent probing call and keep quiet. But intuition is paramount. There is a kefeeling when the two of you are feeling the same, in sync. Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa.  Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/19/2009 Posts: 671 Location: Nairobi
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Impunity wrote:webish wrote:What if this guy is a Wazuan? Like those I see, "Registered in 2006, with 12 posts."????
What are the chances? hmmmm.
@chepkel, You sound excited, all the Best. Please update us the next time he sms you or call. Let us know the content so we can advice accordingly. 
Life is joy, death is peace, but the transition is very difficult.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/13/2006 Posts: 2,589
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Impunity wrote:Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa. Actually kama ni mimi hivyo ndio ningekua nafikiria...@chepkel, please do not ignore what guy say here, it's important to hang around men who tell you how other men think, since wanaume ni wale wale... BEER IS LIVING PROOF THAT GOD LOVES US AND WANTS US TO BE HAPPY!
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/6/2010 Posts: 741 Location: Nairobi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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Then in that we will assume that a Touch-n-Go will have happened! So SAD if u know what I mean! Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/6/2010 Posts: 741 Location: Nairobi
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smano wrote:Impunity wrote:Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa. Actually kama ni mimi hivyo ndio ningekua nafikiria...@chepkel, please do not ignore what guy say here, it's important to hang around men who tell you how other men think, since wanaume ni wale wale... I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10. Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/25/2009 Posts: 973
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smano wrote:Impunity wrote:smano wrote:chepkel wrote:Impunity wrote:
Okay. So he ate very well na akashiba.
Sawa.
Washa hizo zako. Asanteni sana for all your advice. My njaa is still intact...in fact I think it has been made worse. But as you all advised, shuma haikulala ndani!!!! Now I need to know, how can I tell that this dude feels the same way as I do??? He will DEFINITELY CALL or chat you up (g-chat,whatsapp,FB messenger etc etc) if he's interested. If he doesn't call you within a week at least, look for a book by Greg Behrendt (google) coz you'll need it... @smano u are going too far, if she was not sms'ed Sato around noon then imeisha hivyo. Hakuna ingine. She should count on the great lift she was given from Galileos to an estate in Eastlands. Hapo kweli boss, I was trying to show a worst case scenario. As you can see they texted each other the whole weekend, hehe, two hungroz who can't wait to pounce The sad bit of this whole storo is that we'll never get to hear details of their "first time",...hehe, as and when it happens Why do i have this nagging feeling that it happened but she wont admit for obvious reasons...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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chepkel wrote:smano wrote:Impunity wrote:Not unless the level of njaa was the same for the two of you and he thought hanging along for that loooong would have yielded some anti-njaa. Actually kama ni mimi hivyo ndio ningekua nafikiria...@chepkel, please do not ignore what guy say here, it's important to hang around men who tell you how other men think, since wanaume ni wale wale... I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10. Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night. The highlighted above is even more dangerous my girl...if I were you I would be more worried than the njaa-thing. If he didnt even over-stared at a feature on you then as @Njung'e would say, ni kufyam!!!! A man, supposedly with enough testosterone, who is not blind, at 4am, leaves you without even flatting that you have a good hairstyle and pretend to want to touch it...NO NO NO... Sexual advances daent mean necessary touching-touching you...but the feeling of being pulled to a wonderful creature...the feeling of what if I this and that, you know what am saying!!!  Portfolio: Sold
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/25/2007 Posts: 1,574
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chepkel wrote:I dont think so. Because we have talked a lot for the past few months and he knows I do not like to party out all night. We usually chat after nights out and its usually at 9 or 10.
Plus he did not make any sexual advances at the end of the night. At 4am, he went back home (you said he lives far from the city) or? Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
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