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My Wedding....
mawinder
#61 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 11:58:21 AM
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washiku wrote:
...is in August, God willing. As they say, knowledge is power. If you have any advise, warnings, experiences worth sharing, or any other such; both for the wedding and for the marriage, please share...

Dumped.Pole.It is painful but accept and move on.
Meduza
#62 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 12:12:31 PM
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mlefu wrote:
My Wedding...I love it..just like everyone else..

Then it grows up in to..here here..wait for it..

My Marriage...!@%$#%@$$#..just like everyone else..


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
You cant win, unless you first begin....
Meduza
#63 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 12:31:54 PM
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essyk wrote:
A woman trusts a man who makes wise decisions.

Ai some men are foolish.Hata God knows that and if a woman fails to take care ul both find urselves in a bottomless pit of trouble.

@Alpha.A single insecure woman cannot feel secure with a man no matter what.
She must be a complete individual before she can think about bringing another complete individual into her life.
By complete I mean she must be satisfied/happy with what God has made her to be.

Insecure woman + Secure man = Insecure couple
Secure woman +Secure man = Secure couple.



I AGREE...
Nobody completes another...u must be whole in the first place...
You cant win, unless you first begin....
Meduza
#64 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 12:34:39 PM
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essyk wrote:
Mukiri wrote:
essyk wrote:
@Mukiri.Si wewe ni Pastor? wacha bad manners.


Shame on you Aviation between husband and wife is a form of worship. Very good manners


woooi! I heard this once from a pastor and I disagreed.
Aviation is not spiritual.If it is so, how would you describe what atheists/pagans couples do?
One pastor had a habit of telling us how he couldn't stand to minister without a dose on a sunday morning.
You can imagine what was going through our minds all through the service,wife on front row and the way he was old.


God created aviation...so i guess its some kind of spiritual ritual regardless whether christian or pagan....
You cant win, unless you first begin....
youcan'tstopusnow
#65 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 1:06:09 PM
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Impunity wrote:
maka wrote:
Impunity wrote:
Men dont talk about wedding so passionately as you do.
What type of a man are you?

...the metrosexual type...with pink phones and where lip gloss...ki u Daudi Beckham hivi.;-)


Fake kabisa.
The type which talk like "Me I don do red meat....bla bla bla" while wiping face with velvex "medicated" wipers.
Bure kabisa.
Shame on you Shame on you

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GOD BLESS YOUR LIFE
Bigchick
#66 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 1:29:46 PM
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youcan'tstopusnow wrote:
Impunity wrote:
maka wrote:
Impunity wrote:
Men dont talk about wedding so passionately as you do.
What type of a man are you?

...the metrosexual type...with pink phones and where lip gloss...ki u Daudi Beckham hivi.;-)


Fake kabisa.
The type which talk like "Me I don do red meat....bla bla bla" while wiping face with velvex "medicated" wipers.
Bure kabisa.
Shame on you Shame on you

Laughing out loudlyLaughing out loudlyLaughing out loudly



Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly and more often than not they are flat huko nyuma, they are lightish in colour , they wear specs and they pretend to be serious about everything and nothing.

If you go for a dance with them they dance Mass Choir style ati softly to avoid sweating.Bure Kabisa.
Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
CLK
#67 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 3:29:31 PM
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Sufficiently Philanga....thropic wrote:
Make sure you are sawas financially,a million plus will give you some peace of mind or else form a committee right away for mchango mchango.
Having said that,always remember a wedding is a private function not a public one.
All the best in this journey. There is increase,favour & wisdom that comes with marriage!


The reverse is also true, do not let a woman shade tears because of you....

livie
#68 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 5:18:14 PM
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AlphDoti wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
AlphDoti wrote:
ChessMaster wrote:
AlphDoti wrote:
<some data deleted>...Do what a man has to do....

And what does a woman do?

@ChessMaster, a woman trusts a man who makes decisions.

@essyk I applaud you 100% Applause Applause

I agree. This brings up another issue,is it a man's role to make a woman feel secure?

Yes, it's a man's role to make the woman "feel secure". Actually the right word is "sense of belonging".

It's man's role to:
- pay her dowry
- Feed her
- Give her drinks
- Clothe her
- House her

- Share equally for those who have more than one wife...

So sorry my friend, don't look at her money. That's hers.


then i dont expect her to make a sound when i just being a man, i make all decisions unquestioned and unchallenged, after all i provide everything!!!!including that side dish
If you are going to be thinking only one thing, you might as well be thinking big. -Donald J . Trump
Kwanini
#69 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 6:17:46 PM
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@umeshikwo... can i paraphrase... was yours about marriage and NOT WEDDING? Surely a wedding is a walk in the park. A marriage requires nerves of steel.
"For i am the master and the captain of my fate"
2012
#70 Posted : Wednesday, July 17, 2013 6:20:08 PM
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washiku wrote:
...is in August, God willing. As they say, knowledge is power. If you have any advise, warnings, experiences worth sharing, or any other such; both for the wedding and for the marriage, please share...


Spend less on the wedding and more on the honeymoon. The guests will disperse and only the two of you will be left. Plus budget for after the wedding, people run broke after the huge spend on wedding and honeymoon and it's quite embarrassing to start borrowing from family and friends after. Oh another thing, the gifts will not be that great and the money from envelops will be very little.

BBI will solve it
:)
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