Zanze wrote:there are people who are lured by the dreams of the flashy lifestyle but most see the possibilities of getting their families out of a rut.
The reason most people prefer to take the risk is they can see the outcome of the hard work.
That is the same reason Mexicans risk crossing the Rio Grande and the Arizona desert and they do so from a very early age (talking about 10yr olds )because they know what life is like at home and what it can be if they cross over.
Ok.After hearing these sad stories,no woman should risk her life/family cz she may never come back alive.
Some local employers are worse than the Arabs I acknowledge but vumilia tu intead of being dehumanised abroad.
This one below went to extreme lengths to stay in the UK.
Quote:A Nigerian groom has been jailed for 12 months for a sham marriage where he picked Celine Dion’s song 'The first time ever I saw your face' to march down the aisle.
Hull University masters student Jayeola Abiola, 29, needed to marry to stay in the UK, and paid Portuguese Vania Pinheiro-Fernandes, 29, to be his bride.
They met for the first time at their dress rehearsal and he stumbled to pronounce her name.
Crown barrister David Bradshaw said Jayeole Abiola's visa was due to expire a few days after the marriage. Knowing his visa was due to expire he paid Abiola Kumoye to arrange a sham marriage. Portugal being a member state of the EU entitled him to citizenship.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news...onths.html#ixzz2YlgshloK