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Burning Spear
#21 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 10:05:00 AM
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@lyra, Also note that anytime you open your legs again.....use durex.!!!!!! Ni kumbaya or have an ELISA test done before the big match.
"You're not supposed to be so blind with patriotism that you can't face reality. Wrong is wrong, no matter who says it". Malcolm X
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kingz
#22 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 10:08:00 AM
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@ lyra:focus on the children welfare first cos when all is said and done,when they all leave,you have your life and children to take care off. ask yourself if you are ready 4 another r/ship.if so try the no 1 coz i believe he lvd you till you fred.the probability of hooking up with a single man is dwidling,accept his baggage and move on. if you decide to explore the world for more options,am sorry you might end up with a bigger shocker now that you decided to be enjoying the sugarcane unihibited. pata potea
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kingz
#23 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 10:12:00 AM
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@lyra ;lets gets the difference btw lust and luv.i believe the 2nd jamaa is coming back out of lust lakini anajua akikwambia....utakatalia pata potea
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Jowa
#24 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 11:08:00 AM
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The truth of the matter is You do not love the man,neither does he love you,but out of that loneliness that grips a woman,combined with some secret feeling that the biological clock is working overtime,you are looking for support to go for this 2nd guy But the truth is,there is no love between you two,I would not be surprised if the guy already want to use you as a side dish,and since you know that you already have a child with him,you will use that as the justification to sooth your conscience. I hope I am not too harsh,but if you want true love,then,wait for God and don&rsquo;t wait on men,none of these men is your husband to be,yours is on the way. But I know that even after all what we tell you here,you will still go ahead and go back to him I am not like you
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Marty
#25 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 12:13:00 PM
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@Jowa, R u the same Jowa we know,or you have gathered enough experience after your tough ordeal?? Kweli mambo hubadilika,ama 'nyani haoni kundule' ..wise as a serpent,humble as a dove
When I admire the wonder of a sunset or the beauty of the moon, my soul expands in worship of the Creator.
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Jowa
#26 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 12:25:00 PM
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@ marty I have a dream I have a dream,a dream of a time when a person will not be judged by the problems he has gone through,but by the content and the wisdom of his contribution I have dream i am wiser now pls I am not like you
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Ray
#27 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 1:19:00 PM
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@ Jowa Sorry to get personal.In your case what decision did you take?Don't feel obliged to answer if you don't want to talk about it.
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Gordon Gekko
#28 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 2:28:00 PM
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@jowa,that's deep. Gem from the maestro himself.
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Brewer
#29 Posted : Friday, February 27, 2009 3:00:00 PM
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Godspeed Lyra in finding your kids a father,but to find an over 10 year old a father must be something! You will be careful to think of what really makes you happy because kids will grow and probably the better without a father in your circumstances and when they are gone in another few years you will be left with him- who is he again?- I remember,the father of your kids! Really? If you are lucky,you may call him a good friend so it may be a good idea to start looking for a friend now.
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Lyra
#30 Posted : Saturday, February 28, 2009 8:43:00 AM
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Hi good people,thanks alot for your wisdom,sorry wasnt logged on jana to reply to you all. @Alphdoti Thanks for your advise but i told the 1st guy i wasnt ready to be linked to a murderer. Let me give you the juicy bit,when i was 5 months pg he came back and requested i give him the baby after birth and move on,i refused and told him his died when he insisted on abortion (pls note he is a medical practioner and to him he gave me 2 months and he said at that time it was not a human being). When baby was 6 mths he asked for my hand in marriage,i refused. When baby was 1 yr old he sent his wife to request me to be her co-wife at my work place (i almost fainted) thank God i didnt know her before then. @ jowa Pls note am not planning to ever go back to the 2nd guy unless my mission is to commit suicide,he is not worth it anymore
'Do all the good you can,by all the means you can,in all the ways you can, in all the places you can,to all the people you can,as long as ever you can'. John Wesley English Preacher (1703-1791)
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