I fear for our sons!!
This trend is being passed from generation to generation from the look of things.
If a daughter grows up in an environment where money and property tops the agenda in family gatherings and nothing about values and personal development is emphasised, then money becomes the centre around which everything else including precious life revolves.
If she is used to being given, instead of learning to fend for herself,then such a lady will never learn to stand up on her feet when things hit rock bottom.This is why there are claims of 'man not taking care of me,feeding our kids ,paying fees' etc etc.And as a result revenge becomes an option when the man goes mia.Her life comes to a stop cz she can't think out of the box-never has.
If the man neglects his family let God deal with him cz He will,but taking matters into one's hands is hindering one's blessings and those of the kids..
Whatever the case,It's not even a Kiambu problem.The heart of a human being is desperately wicked, only the fear of God can save one from becoming the devil's workshop.