So following the don juan methods i met up with a great chick. We have been dating (about 2-3 time a week) for about a month and things were great. she called me all the time to come over and sleep with her and have sex and I met a lot of her friends. She even took me out on my birthday.

Let me tell you about her. this girl and I are just dating and all her friends are guys so it would be stupid to think she may not have a guy somewhere else. Guys like her but shes not a total attention ***** or "needy" for guys attention. She doesnt seem like a total *****.

Now (lately), she acts weird towards me. Not so weird as, "not as hot as before". things cooled off a little. We havent had sex in about a week and every night i was there this last week she has not asked me to sleep over. But she calls me every other day to come hangout. Which i do go most of the time. but it ends up with me going home when she goes to bed. So i tell her straight forward if I am wasting my time or if she really likes me. she says, "oh no, i like you like you like you." So ok, it was her rag or whatever so i give it to that. Then she still calls me to hangout (same week) but like i said, no sex or sleeping over. So i ask her today, "are you mad or something? because your acting a little weird lately." she says,"no everything is fine, i like you." which i said, "of course you like me. you wouldnt call me if you didnt."
Then she had to go and I gave her a ride to her friend's because i was going that way. We arrive and some older guy comes out and she gives me a hug but no kiss... This guy tries to come over and befriend me too. see who i am. He is suppose to be her friend's uncle..

Now i have entertained the thoughts of another alpha male takin my spot but why would she keep calling and telling me she likes me? She has gone in the other room and talked on the phone too when i come over (she has roomates that i am friends with so it seems very "hangout"). But we even joked about us having sex again soon before i dropped her off which confused me a whole lot more. I was (it seemed) the one she calls up for sex and cuddling but she hasnt wanted to really do that lately.

So, please help me with this. Am i getting played? maybe there is something she wants from me? Should i just drop this now? Sorry so long but this was the only place i could turn and i actually like her and feel like i am letting it slip away... Btw she is not the only girl i am dating and I do get laid by other women (in case that makes a difference). Is being nice and doing things for her at this stage bad? not everything but i am helpful and a good guy about things.

It's true what @essyk is saying.

@georgyman unfortunately, this was the wrong way for this one. You played it wrong. She played it wrong. Both of you were not meant to last long.

First, you allowed this to be about physical satisfaction. How long were you thinking girl would take before she realizes that there is no future having indulged in sex the 1st month? She must be feeling cheap and does not want to be reminded of this thought...

Secondly, you seem a careless person. I'm not saying you didn't you protection. But what is this about having another woman, and you sleep around with her?

You thought she won't know you're sleeping around with another woman?

Thirdly, what if she is infected? Don't tell us I was using protection. The question is, would you comfortably sleep with someone if you knew she's infected?
If you were sure, why did you use protection?

Lastly, please get married. You are obsessed with your car. But you can't afford to marry and take responsibility? Have you not able to get a woman to marry?

Well just a playa being played.. Ati her uncle...LOL. why didnt she want to kiss you. and by the way why are you complaining? You just said in the last part she aint the only girl you are dating/laying...so why do you need advice.

The man allowed himself to be played, the lady must have been going through a phase in her life and needed a douchebag. @georgyxyz...was warned that he ain't the only fish in the sea...so...deal with it broda..chill, when she needs you again, she shall surely give you that call.

Get over it dude. You were used as meat, even ladies know how to play the game now. When you started acting clingy, whatever little you had going became even less. Develop a character, another deeper side, not just being a transport for your pen** and she might like you again.