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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Ngong wrote:Mukiri wrote:slimshadie wrote:Being faithful is a choice. I agree there are almost unbearable days but its all in the mind. Just tune your mind to other things. I am lucky since i have young children and this keeps me quite busy in the evenings. What with the homework and all.
Nyinyi watu wa hire, chungeni  True wife material. My advice get one of those good sex guides. The ones written for married couples. Send it to him (e-book). Tell him as fore-play, you'd like to discuss (chat/email) page by page because you are looking forward. PS: They never lack stressing the importance of fore-play. And while you are at it, ask him to bring over a few mutual 'toys' for added spice. Jambo Mukiri  Hubby aren't you? @Washiku, Is there any couple in this day and age without toys? For both
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/15/2011 Posts: 4,518
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Mukiri wrote:ask him to bring over a few mutual 'toys' for added spice.@Washiku, Is there any couple in this day and age without toys? For both Are you encouraging masturbation??? Anyway to each his own. "The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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@MaichBlack good advice.
@ZZE123 kushikana ni vipi tena? Don't you know God is amazing in His creation?
@Mukiri look up your faith and its teachings, it does not allow use of those things you're bringing up.
I agree with someone who mentioned that all is in the mind.
Get busy and set your mind to the right things.
@jguru if you can't do some things, doesn't mean others cannot.
You're talking about relationship but you don't seem to know what a relationship means.
To you having a relationship is having partners. Wrong
Relationship, means commitment
Each one of us have different circumstances in life.
You never know why a certain couple has to go away from home a long time.
That does not mean he/she cannot get married!
That does not mean he/she should be unfaithful either!
People can be away:
- on military mission
- for studies
- on separation (NOTE: not divorced)
- on refuge (DON'T MAKE FUN HERE. DON'T ASSUME IT CANNOT HAPPEN TO YOU SINCE YOU HAVE PEACE IN KENYA)
- or other unavoidable circumstances
But when you sit here and just advice people to be unfaithful because their partners are away, is wrong.
Just say you do like that yourself.
You are different.
@slimshadie first, congrats.
Secondly, I think your husband is good man like you.
Because when you see a man tense and anxious, it means a lot - he has been waiting for the return back. If he were a player, this would not disturb him!
So you need to be patient with him
Support him to be able to land well again.
When he disembark too soon, don't worry, relax, let him cool down, tell him we can try some hours later.
Don't postpone too long, just stay together for say 2 hours and wake him up again, and you'll be amazed how he will land!
NOTE: Be careful with that gynae. Bad advice!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/23/2008 Posts: 3,966
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jguru wrote:slimshadie wrote:Being faithful is a choice. I agree there are almost unbearable days but its all in the mind. Just tune your mind to other things. I am lucky since i have young children and this keeps me quite busy in the evenings. What with the homework and all.
Nyinyi watu wa hire, chungeni My dear, life is short. You shouldn't be having unbearable days. Your body's calling. Listen to it. Having children is not an excuse to neglect one of the great pleasures of life: companionship with intimacy. 20 months! His job/studies do not allow you to accompany him? Listen to the body calling? Not have unbearable days? Are you married @jguru? If not, achia hapo. Please. Like someone asked, will she accompany the hubby if he was to be sent on a battle mission? Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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Mukiri wrote:Ngong wrote:Mukiri wrote:slimshadie wrote:Being faithful is a choice. I agree there are almost unbearable days but its all in the mind. Just tune your mind to other things. I am lucky since i have young children and this keeps me quite busy in the evenings. What with the homework and all.
Nyinyi watu wa hire, chungeni True wife material. My advice get one of those good sex guides. The ones written for married couples. Send it to him (e-book). Tell him as fore-play, you'd like to discuss (chat/email) page by page because you are looking forward. PS: They never lack stressing the importance of fore-play. And while you are at it, ask him to bring over a few mutual 'toys' for added spice. Jambo Mukiri Hubby aren't you? @Washiku, Is there any couple in this day and age without toys? For both Mimi sina and havent even seen one. Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Mukiri wrote:Ngong wrote:Mukiri wrote:slimshadie wrote:Being faithful is a choice. I agree there are almost unbearable days but its all in the mind. Just tune your mind to other things. I am lucky since i have young children and this keeps me quite busy in the evenings. What with the homework and all.
Nyinyi watu wa hire, chungeni True wife material. My advice get one of those good sex guides. The ones written for married couples. Send it to him (e-book). Tell him as fore-play, you'd like to discuss (chat/email) page by page because you are looking forward. PS: They never lack stressing the importance of fore-play. And while you are at it, ask him to bring over a few mutual 'toys' for added spice. Jambo Mukiri Hubby aren't you? @Washiku, Is there any couple in this day and age without toys? For both @Mukiri this is new Gospel. I am not married yet, and they were not in the budget of the things I will buy once I get married. But in the process of preparing for marriage, and to try expand my knowledge, I had read and watched books and DVDs on marriage. One of the dvds I watched is called "LAUGH YOUR WAY INTO A HAPPY MARRIAGE". That guy really condemns masturbation in marriage. Are u implying he is wrong?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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washiku wrote:Mukiri wrote:Ngong wrote:Mukiri wrote:slimshadie wrote:Being faithful is a choice. I agree there are almost unbearable days but its all in the mind. Just tune your mind to other things. I am lucky since i have young children and this keeps me quite busy in the evenings. What with the homework and all.
Nyinyi watu wa hire, chungeni True wife material. My advice get one of those good sex guides. The ones written for married couples. Send it to him (e-book). Tell him as fore-play, you'd like to discuss (chat/email) page by page because you are looking forward. PS: They never lack stressing the importance of fore-play. And while you are at it, ask him to bring over a few mutual 'toys' for added spice. Jambo Mukiri Hubby aren't you? @Washiku, Is there any couple in this day and age without toys? For both @Mukiri this is new Gospel. I am not married yet, and they were not in the budget of the things I will buy once I get married. But in the process of preparing for marriage, and to try expand my knowledge, I had read and watched books and DVDs on marriage. One of the dvds I watched is called "LAUGH YOUR WAY INTO A HAPPY MARRIAGE". That guy really condemns masturbation in marriage. Are u implying he is wrong? Mbloo, Interesting the way people jump to conclusions. “They have the unique ability to listen to one story and understand another.” ~ Pandora Poikilos Masturbation is evil as is other forms of self-gratification. Toys should be used on each other. For its more blessed to give(pleasure) than to receive
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 4/3/2012 Posts: 18
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@all thank you. I hope all will be smooth and any bumps along the way will be straightened out.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,334 Location: Masada
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slimshadie wrote:
@all thank you. I hope all will be smooth and any bumps along the way will be straightened out.
Remeber to buy Kilo Yankee to smoothen them ways!  Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 4/3/2012 Posts: 18
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@ prime
the experience was 'mathogothanio' as essyk says and i agree the doc was out of line for telling me that. I have never gone back. He actually gave me medication that did not work at all. I have been married for ten years and sex life was good, very good indeed.
I will read more on honeymoon vaginitis i believe its also referred to as 'holiday cystitis'
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