True wife material.

My advice get one of those good sex guides. The ones written for married couples. Send it to him (e-book). Tell him as fore-play, you'd like to discuss (chat/email) page by page because you are looking forward.

PS: They never lack stressing the importance of fore-play. And while you are at it, ask him to bring over a few mutual 'toys' for added spice.

@ slimshadie
I think im the only one floating on this story. When you say the experience was not so good, do you mean pain? infection or premature disembarkation of passengers? im lost. Then this statement from your doc (gynae?)...was really really resisting to tell me that he is not good' but he said it anyway... totally mixes me up.How does the doc get to tell you that your hubby is not good? I think thats very careless and unprofessional of your doc.

it may be of help if you provided more details. That way you will get better views and opinions. For example, How long you have been married, how your s*x life was before he relocated, whether you constantly kept in touch (keeping the fire burning), how long he was around, whether it happened severally or if it was a one time thing and you gave up coz of the pain (assumption). While at it google :honeymoon vaginitis

I year 8months ni kidogo sana to worry.People do more but still resume and life goes on-your fears are unfounded esp if you are physically fit.
For Christ's sake, lack of sex never killed anyone but sex has killed many,forget the cobwebs nonsense-don't even know what people mean by that.
Self discipline matters a lot because usipochunga you will become broom ya kanjo and in the end die a miserable disease filled death.
By the way,people carry all manner of diseases in their bodies.
I read that herpes which Guru describes above can be transmitted through an ORDINARY KISS and that it stays in the body FOREVER!!! It only resurfaces when it's activated through intercourse again.
Hata cd HAIWESMAKE.Just google.

So tell me why anyone would want to be careless to sleep/kiss strangers just to remain active?
I'd rather put a lock and chains and be ridiculed.
And how can one detect herpes in another if it lies dormant in body?scary
I now thinks that 95% of sexually active adults have herpes.

@JB and Maich Black...spot on

@slim, both of you may need to lay on the romantic gestures to turn each other on.....all the best

Fimbo ya kando might mean a battery operated gadget. A woman's best friend. The Rabbit Vibrator. Get that one. Thank me later...

Long foreplay? What is this?

The physiology behind sexual arousal varies greatly between men and women. Excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution vary in both in intensity and duration. And hardly ever will the man and woman experience sex the same (be at the same wavelength).

For example, the woman might be in excitement phase, while the man will have already shot his load and he's in resolution. A man will be aroused by what excites him e.g. a MOMO (sorry, ladies). So when he returns and finds that you weigh 41kgs, he'll want to get it done over with quick and move on.

The trick is to remain in the plateau phase for a longer time. Also, very few women have orgasms during landing. Most women need extra stimulation to achieve this. Leearn how to do the two above, and she will wait for you for 200 months.