thanks all for your responses. the guy has diabetes for quite a while now. ive tried everything in the book lakini wapi! now any effort from me makes him angry and grumpy and not fun to be around. by the way one doctor prescribed xrated ati we watch together! sasa mimi nachenka na migingo hakuna earthquake! hata tremor hakuna! na sasa niyo rhino horn nitatoa wapi? si i thot it was contraband? pls nitafutieni daktari. btw,why do men behave as if its the only thing that matters? surely there are other ways to make up for this small problem

history repeats itself because you took no notice the first time...

@ Donedeal. Pls dont tell me what you read in websites and bloggs shud be taken as the absolute truth.If age was indeed a factor then most men past 60 wouldnt 'rise up to address the jury' so to say.

@ Tams,if its diabetes then there is medication,but your man has to keep off alcohol and cigarettes. He should eat well,excercise and know that it starts in the brain.

Ask him about his sexual fantasies,dont cringe even if he asks you to blow his horn -:) Dont shy away from anything that will arouse him.

Do all you can,and when he turns round you'll be amazed by the spanking. The first time he does turn around will be a major phychological boost.

All the best,and remember youre not alone.




The Hedonist

Ajaribu Lincks,they advertise. But be careful with these people who practise alternative medicine. They are bloody expensive and most of their ideas do not work.

Going through the classified pages you will see ED treatment is an industry on it's own.


Fundamentals + Sentiments = Position

@lyanne,are you suggesting i take your word and ignore wikipedea....i don't think so!

As a jamaa,i am speaking from experience when i say age is a factor. When i was younger they used to call me 'The village bull'....These day's i find i can hardly keep up with the 'Jones' even if i wanted to. As a matter of fact,i look foward to a romantic dinner,cuddling in the sofa,watching a movie with the 'firstlady' than to the actual act.....i don't know what you call that but i'd say its age. Am sure it happens to women too.So there's no need to be in denial.....Age is most definately a factor girl!



May we live in interesting times!

My beef with these guys is that they do not have a lab,they were just using strips of paper for their tests which then showed that I had low blood sugar.Not convincing at all!When I protested the lady asked me whther I feel dizzy in the morning after getting up which off course was not the case.