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Tams
#1 Posted : Sunday, July 05, 2009 6:40:00 PM
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Pls skerians,this is out of topic: i do need a therapist for my man,he has ed issues and its tearing us apart.

history repeats itself because you took no notice the first time...
Wendz
#2 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 7:51:00 AM
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Sasa hawa over 70 people wanaangalia dada bila kumsaidia?

@Tams,

I may not have a solution for this one but i believe if your man can accept seeking medical assistance from a good hosi he can be helped. I read somewhere many men suffer in silence when they can actually be helped. Get him to see a doctor. May be now,we can have someone inform us of a good doctor who can assist him. May be even therapy. I hear these things can happen if the guy is stressed. But most importantly,you will have to be very very very supportive. if you make him feel you are not supporting him,it can make it difficult for him to recover.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
timbuktu
#3 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 1:41:00 PM
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A certain DR Karanja on Kenyatta Market could be of immense help...Sounds quite knowledgeable on reproduction and such issues. if you need contacts i can provide.Please ensure you never make him lose his confidence

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Chaka
#4 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 1:48:00 PM
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@timbuktu,

I thought Dr.Karanja is a gynae?

I read somewhere that diabetes can interfere with the thing down there.May be this should be ruled out first?
KURUTU
#5 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 3:22:00 PM
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@wendz you are right on the support issue. @tam you need as advised by Wendz to have a lot of patience with your mate even as you encourage him to seek professional advise. If it is a matter that can be sorted,it will,with your assistance,if on the other hand its not curable,then your support will still be needed to have the gentleman at least have the confidence to walk around with his head high up. All the best.
Waria
#6 Posted : Monday, July 06, 2009 3:43:00 PM
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Therapy will make it even worse! thats a girlie solution to a manly problem

Just buy enzoy and sprinkle generously in his supper.....and Lo and behold!


Me first,U next
Grand
#7 Posted : Tuesday, July 07, 2009 5:42:00 AM
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be seductively suggestive without him feeling he has to perform,this is a sensitive matter and if you pile pressure and suggest you have had it better somewhere before then you will be part of the problem and not a solution.Change environment and feed him well and be very adoring and seductive and you will just have the thing roaring to life again and again till the problem becomes having too much other than having little.All the best!

unlimited possibility
Donedeal
#8 Posted : Tuesday, July 07, 2009 6:02:00 AM
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@Tams,ed issues? I think i get the drift but you may need to give additional infor for one to give relevant advise or referal for e.g Has he always had the problem? How old is he? Do you have children? Have you discussed the issue with him and what was his response? etc


May we live in interesting times!
Njunge
#9 Posted : Tuesday, July 07, 2009 6:29:00 AM
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Diabetes is an enemy of development ( i guess it's a case of too much sugar in the cane).See a doctor and have him tested.stress might only require a counsellor.There are other facrtors that infuence ED.Smoking,excessive drinking and poor eating habits.........One thing beats all this.......jogging.....exercising daily and in moderation........if he agrees to hit the road or the gym,be sure of one thing.He will be smiling all the way to the 'ATM'.......Did i say you avoid 'tembes' and those other temporary measures susch rhino horn powder?....


Yombo dhier....!!
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
Lyanne
#10 Posted : Tuesday, July 07, 2009 6:49:00 AM
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@ Njunge,you've made me crack a rib on a chilly morning.

Ati Rhino Horn Powder ! Too much sugar in the cane?

All in all,diet and regular excercise will get you out of the woods. Remember to reassure Mzee that all is well and be on his side throught!

Age isnt an issue here,there are over 70's who are still ploughing eg Mwananishi.


The Hedonist
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