Um Sayala wrote:Ni kubaya daddy. My experience:
Mine was always moody whenever I came late, and that was about 11pm, mostly from watching football.
Then I got fed up and told her staright....
"darling I love you but I will not stop watching football..Henry, Pires, Bergkamp... Sitawacha so the earlier u get used to it the better".
She accepted and moved on. ALMOST 14yrs now.
Marriage is a compromise, a few things you'll sacrifice, even some friends must be shed off BUT there are strong holds that she MUST admit broda, otherwise ajipange.
This, and ZZE(something) are the best advise you can get for your situation. This is from a woman's point of view... What i would tell my son, the next time you are locked out of that bedroom, just remove the bedroom door, literally and let it stay like that for two days. Don't bother repairing it. change from the bathroom and act like you are perfectly ok with it. It will never be locked again. Make sure you have let her know this is what you intend to do when it happens next time and because she'll lock you out to test your resolve, do exactly that.
On the Killing herself bit, this is the advise i gave my brother when the girlfriend kept giving him grief with the same stupid line, Just hand her a rope and tell her to call her people and let them know where she'll be jumping from exactly because you will not bother calling them when she does.... When she threatens to swallow medicine, tell her to call a pathologist to prescribe the most effective ones and give an invoice, you'll give her money to buy them. And tell her, when she dies, you will not take 3 months before you get married again.... She'll die of natural causes at 126 years...