Shak wrote:AlphDoti wrote:After reading @chiaroscuro's post.
Haki za mke:
1. To be fed food
2. To be provided drink i.e. water for use at home
3. To be clothed
4. To be housed
5. Not to be hit on the face (i.e. not to be injure by hitting)
6. Not to be deserted from the house i.e. only desert her from bed, as way of instilling punishment
7. To be treated fairly, for the case of co-wives
So for those who want to marry, it is better for them to fast on Mondays and Thursdays if they cannot afford to maintain a wife
NOTE: The above includes your sister, daughter when they're not married, or mother if widowed. It's the role of husband, brother, son or uncle to do this.
this reads more like a manual on how to keep your pet happy
@Shak you want me to say, after that now you should do the following:
- bond with her, special treatment can support all aspects of your relationship development?
- help her and shield her from the stresses of the world?
- because the less tired she's the more comfortable your family environment and the more relaxed you will be?
- you want me to tell you to have quality time with her to lay a great foundation for a great relationship?
- you want me to tell you unconditional love goes hand in hand with being the man?
- you want me to tell you when you do all these, she will feel she's safe with you?
Okay, you should do these ones as well, I can see it is not obvious to you
NOTE: for your information, a healthy, contended woman:- is wonderful in all aspects.
- she will be happy in the heart
- hence She will be warm, and her airport will be eager, and smooth, and happy for landing anytime!
@ZZE123, of course no man is a super man.