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Rank: Member Joined: 4/6/2010 Posts: 741 Location: Nairobi
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Angelica _ann wrote:quicksand wrote:kiterunner wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Weddings MUST be in public domain, big ceremony with over 200 guests from my side. otherwise how will my people know i have a great spouse who loves me and is ready to take care of me. Honeymoon to wonderful places of my choice to boot. NO SHORTCUTS. good for you as long as you pay for it, but dont bring nyef nyef of commitee et al. we are happy to come witness your big day. just pay for it period Spoken with the wisdom of King Solomon  - Not all men are misers by frowning upon lavish weddings. These are rock-hard times we are living in. Many women pass up loving, sensible and stable men because they hold on to the 500 year old Cinderella folklore A man MUST take responsibility from the beginning if i am going to leave my lovely parents for HIM! I think a good wedding is one that is private and only includes those who will be there for you through thick and thin and not the 198 people who have come to check out whether you look fat in your wedding dress. Taking responsibility is best shown through a man's caring and loving nature, honesty and maturity. I think it would be better if both the man and the woman, work together, saving up and all, in order to have a wedding that is best for both of them. I am not leaving my parents house for HIM so that he can take care of me but rather i am leaving my parents house because we can take care of each other.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/25/2007 Posts: 17
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chepkel wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:quicksand wrote:kiterunner wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Weddings MUST be in public domain, big ceremony with over 200 guests from my side. otherwise how will my people know i have a great spouse who loves me and is ready to take care of me. Honeymoon to wonderful places of my choice to boot. NO SHORTCUTS. good for you as long as you pay for it, but dont bring nyef nyef of commitee et al. we are happy to come witness your big day. just pay for it period Spoken with the wisdom of King Solomon - Not all men are misers by frowning upon lavish weddings. These are rock-hard times we are living in. Many women pass up loving, sensible and stable men because they hold on to the 500 year old Cinderella folklore A man MUST take responsibility from the beginning if i am going to leave my lovely parents for HIM! I think a good wedding is one that is private and only includes those who will be there for you through thick and thin and not the 198 people who have come to check out whether you look fat in your wedding dress. Taking responsibility is best shown through a man's caring and loving nature, honesty and maturity. I think it would be better if both the man and the woman, work together, saving up and all, in order to have a wedding that is best for both of them. I am not leaving my parents house for HIM so that he can take care of me but rather i am leaving my parents house because we can take care of each other. Chepkel You are a wise one. Angelica... I think you are lost or hold very outdated views. Doubt you are married. I'm not but believe you me, I'm not looking for someone who will leech off me. I expect and desire someone who we will work together, complementing each other. Of course I will shoulder most of the core responsibilities of the house as the man (and head of the house)....
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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quicksand wrote:kiterunner wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Weddings MUST be in public domain, big ceremony with over 200 guests from my side. otherwise how will my people know i have a great spouse who loves me and is ready to take care of me. Honeymoon to wonderful places of my choice to boot. NO SHORTCUTS. good for you as long as you pay for it, but dont bring nyef nyef of commitee et al. we are happy to come witness your big day. just pay for it period Spoken with the wisdom of King Solomon - Not all men are misers by frowning upon lavish weddings. These are rock-hard times we are living in. Many women pass up loving, sensible and stable men because they hold on to the 500 year old Cinderella folklore Women should be real  Because when you say guests must be acertain number, does that mean you have fixed mind and a man who cannot afford that kind of wedding is out even if he's great man, that adores you, that loves you, can be great father? I think we should start discussing and consider putting upper limit on wedding expenses!Obviously, many young men are being discouraged from getting married because of this!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/27/2011 Posts: 1,777
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Millonare wrote:chepkel wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:quicksand wrote:kiterunner wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Weddings MUST be in public domain, big ceremony with over 200 guests from my side. otherwise how will my people know i have a great spouse who loves me and is ready to take care of me. Honeymoon to wonderful places of my choice to boot. NO SHORTCUTS. good for you as long as you pay for it, but dont bring nyef nyef of commitee et al. we are happy to come witness your big day. just pay for it period Spoken with the wisdom of King Solomon - Not all men are misers by frowning upon lavish weddings. These are rock-hard times we are living in. Many women pass up loving, sensible and stable men because they hold on to the 500 year old Cinderella folklore A man MUST take responsibility from the beginning if i am going to leave my lovely parents for HIM! I think a good wedding is one that is private and only includes those who will be there for you through thick and thin and not the 198 people who have come to check out whether you look fat in your wedding dress. Taking responsibility is best shown through a man's caring and loving nature, honesty and maturity. I think it would be better if both the man and the woman, work together, saving up and all, in order to have a wedding that is best for both of them. I am not leaving my parents house for HIM so that he can take care of me but rather i am leaving my parents house because we can take care of each other. Chepkel You are a wise one. Angelica... I think you are lost or hold very outdated views. Doubt you are married. I'm not but believe you me, I'm not looking for someone who will leech off me. I expect and desire someone who we will work together, complementing each other. Of course I will shoulder most of the core responsibilities of the house as the man (and head of the house).... And this coming from millionare is something to ponder about sister........ 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Millonare wrote:chepkel wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:quicksand wrote:kiterunner wrote:Angelica _ann wrote:Weddings MUST be in public domain, big ceremony with over 200 guests from my side. otherwise how will my people know i have a great spouse who loves me and is ready to take care of me. Honeymoon to wonderful places of my choice to boot. NO SHORTCUTS. good for you as long as you pay for it, but dont bring nyef nyef of commitee et al. we are happy to come witness your big day. just pay for it period Spoken with the wisdom of King Solomon - Not all men are misers by frowning upon lavish weddings. These are rock-hard times we are living in. Many women pass up loving, sensible and stable men because they hold on to the 500 year old Cinderella folklore A man MUST take responsibility from the beginning if i am going to leave my lovely parents for HIM! I think a good wedding is one that is private and only includes those who will be there for you through thick and thin and not the 198 people who have come to check out whether you look fat in your wedding dress. Taking responsibility is best shown through a man's caring and loving nature, honesty and maturity. I think it would be better if both the man and the woman, work together, saving up and all, in order to have a wedding that is best for both of them. I am not leaving my parents house for HIM so that he can take care of me but rather i am leaving my parents house because we can take care of each other. Chepkel You are a wise one. Angelica... I think you are lost or hold very outdated views. Doubt you are married. I'm not but believe you me, I'm not looking for someone who will leech off me. I expect and desire someone who we will work together, complementing each other. Of course I will shoulder most of the core responsibilities of the house as the man (and head of the house).... Unmarried with a bun.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/6/2010 Posts: 741 Location: Nairobi
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/2/2009 Posts: 2,458 Location: Nairobi
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mukiha wrote:bigbossman wrote:mukiha wrote:@bigbossman; initially, I thought it was the cost of a "full wedding" that you were afraid of. Now it appears that you are also afraid of "announcing to the world" that you are married.... getting married.
I wonder why....
Are you ashamed of your spouse?
Are you not ready for marriage?
The reason they make the announcements in Church is so that "anyone who knows a reason why the two should not be joined together" can come out and say it....or "forever hold their peace"
Now the reason is not necessarily some old flame who turns up with six kids claiming that you fathered them! It could also be a close friend of your partner who knows that she lives a secret life as a drug-dealer and has never told you about it..... wouldn't you want to know this before marrying her?
In all; I think you are not ready for marriage! You want to live a double life as a single and married man at the same time. Why?
I am also curious: why do you want the certificate now? Am the kind of guy who doesn't like bothering the whole world and at the same time doesn't like the whole world bothering him. I like to keep to myself and keep it simple. Why do u ask why i need a marriage certificate? Of course i don't want anybody snatching whatever little property i have from my significant other when and if i die. You should know how useful a marriage certificate can be in some situations. The certificate is useless when it comes to property inheritance! If you had fathered some kid outside wedlock the certificate will not stop the kid from laying claim on your property! If you really want to protect your wife from search claims, then register everything that you own in HER name alone. I assume that you trust her that much...that she won't throw you out! But still, why are you assuming that you will die before her? Maybe the much Bossman has been hiding has now been laid bare in the open.. and the wife is from those areas where you depart as soon as you 'make ends meet'
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Let it be said otherwise. Wazua has a memory.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,909
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/25/2007 Posts: 17
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Mukiri wrote: Let it be said otherwise. Wazua has a memory. Hahahaha Mukiri I saw what you did there... luckily, I'm happily unmarried without any encumberances :)
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Rank: Member Joined: 7/9/2011 Posts: 730 Location: Nairobi
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a 'friend' has a bun and she is unmarried, her employer will fire her if they discover she has a bun and is unmarried. our goals are best achieved indirectly
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2012 Posts: 3,855 Location: Othumo
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kiterunner wrote:a 'friend' has a bun and she is unmarried, her employer will fire her if they discover she has a bun and is unmarried. pole kwako, why did you allow bila protection. now job is gone! ops sorry Thieves
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