Hehehe Pondi,you mean you are that keen.My broda am in the middle of making some strategic decisions.Woga kidogo lakini nambia Mungu saidia.So coz of that,i would like to know what it takes to begin this life time project.Personally i have a feeling that my marriage will stand the test of time and will be an example to many.I love being positive in all that i do.

Currently,i have been handling marriage issues where jamaas come to me with one or two problems,i have to listen to them and most of the time i do advise them based on biblical principles and so i think it would be better if i also have real life experience,not just theory.

So Pondi am still far,but am always proactive



Without Holiness no man shall see God.Dear God,mould me to be a vessel of honour at this End times,to remain Obedient to your Word in all situations.Amen!

@ GG,hahaha very funny! umetuma nicheke. I am young,I dress how I want coz I have only one life to live,I won’t have my cute,cellulite-free,stretch mark-free,pot-free,pre-baby body forever soo… but I have a good brain b/w my ears…;-)

@ Alph,yeah,I’m single now,i think I said here before how I supported my man in campo…later when he didn’t want me around anymore..he told me how we shouldn’t take ‘campus things’ seriously…that’s right!.he described it as a ‘campus thing’ …...he had told me I was ‘wife material’ only later to say it did not mean he wanted to marry me; that I’d make a good mother and wife(to someone else,not him) but not a good girlfriend….this was after dating for 1.5 years in campus….. I was livid ….i demanded my money and gifts back ….. I took it badly then but now it seems soo trivial...it was the most embarassing episode of my life but now as I look back I find it too funny….it’s a good thing very few of you know me…twas just embarassing..


Attention all men!!! If you don’t want a lady in your life,just tell her!!! We are perfectly rational human beings,just be honest and explain yourself,we will understand and let go.


@ Ladies,when a man tells you you are ‘wife material’,it’s NOT a compliment,just means you are boring,you remind him if his mother….stuff stuff…..you look like a good container to carry his kids…..


First there was white power,then black power,now there's no power!

@xtina

Haiyaiyaiyaiyaiya!!!!! Hey,kumbe you learn each and every day...... Ati if a dude says you are 'wife material' its not a complement???? heheheheheheh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Ngwono

Peace.

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

If a man thinks you are marriage material,he wont tell you so; he will simply ask you to marry him!

Been married close to ten years now....and I can't remember how I used to survive single. Married life is better...problems here and there,but better all the same.

People are getting more & more scared of marriage & have developed negative attitude towards the same. I look around and see most dudes we cleared campus with are still single having fun & yet theyre over 30. I asked one during easter and all he could tell me is 'sitaki stress! ya mwanamke'. Even the women are now avoidn marriage.
I live in an apartment block of 28 apartments,each 1 bedroom.. Out of 28 houses,there are 3 single men (includn me),2 married couples,2 women with children & 21 single women who all look like ages 25-35,all working & most driving,except 1 who is kept. Ofcourse during weekends theres trouble getting parking space due to many visitors. But it got me wondering,What happened to good old Marriage?
How can we repair this situation in Kenya. Who has solution?

Chance Favors the prepared mind.