Life to me has just become blunt and boring,nothing seems to excite me,am just in that phase where all seems like a lull ,a never ending cycle that is hell bent to destroy me there is nothing as bad as people telling you,you have potential but you arent using it and deep down you know its all true...really need to rediscover myself,need to find a way to get that will power to do the things I have dreamt of...help anyone?

His dreams of a landing are yet to be realised. Poor soul!

Maka, usiskize akina Chemos. There's a time in life when everyone feels like they are stuck in a rut. You feel like you are stuck in the same place with no hope. Waking up in the morning becomes a drag coz you know it's the same old same old. You try and find solace in forums like Wazua, which you do but only for a short while then you goes back to square one. One thing I want to tell you is not to despair, you are not alone. Alt of ppl in this world are in search of quick pleasures/returns and have forgotten to enjoy the simple joys in life. From what you;ve written I take it you either haven't found your other half or the one you're with is not the one. If this is it, look around you. This has become an epidemic. Finding the right person has become a rumor. However, if you go back to the basics you will soon realize your other half is still there. Just go back to the drawing board, even if you have to wirte out what you need for yourself be it financially, love, friends and work towards that. Try to revamp your life slowly by slowly by maybe changing your henging joints, your health regime etc. Sometimes your inside determines your outside and vice versa. I can tell someone's inner environment just by looking at their home and so on. I could go on and on and on but one thing should be clear to you, do not give up. Many have it way worse than you do. You are actually a step ahead of many because you have us wazuans to listen to you (virtual friends). So much for my rantings, I hope something touched your heart and if I totally missed the mark, oh well, I hope I touched someone else's....

This is good. You'll be ecstatic when you realize that life doesn't need to be dull and boring. It never is. It's the people who are oppressing themselves.

@Wendz nakuona peeping hapa. Pls sema kitu for our brother maka.