At some certain age, the wives pants become extremely hot. At this age she often tend to think that the husband is the barrier to her sexual satisfaction which is not necessarily the case. So the hubbies are not entirely to blame.

The later is negated by the new 6-month law

On a serious note
I always tell you that the mistake was done (mkosa-olifanyika) the moment Africans embraced Western culture

Now you're stuck:
- did you know in your secular marriage, your wife can start flirting with other men the next day after wedding and nothing you can do?
- she can cheat on you, but since you don't have hard evidence, she'll get away in your current courts?

I'm glad
Islam Marriage, divorce, and inheritance is such a simple matter.

IMPORTANT:
Our Muslim married ladies are the best. They don't flirt on phone with other men. All praise be to Allah !!

And the wives are not to blame either because the 'hotness' comes naturally with age. It's the man's task to handle the heat.

Not necessarilly

You see all of us are same biologically (substantially). That means, we may all be hot down there, but you see the problem is opportunity. And whether you can get away with it or not.

So a lady who knows she can get away with the crime will attempt it.

IMPORTANT: Most people are guided by the fear for God, and this makes them avoid these said opportunities. They stick with their spouses. And if you cannot, then you marry another one (for Muslims).

Since this institution has evolved, I bet we (husbands) have to evolve too.