I would focus on gathering more evidence. Hire two guys and have them follow her discretely for a month. They should take photos, peek through keyholes, record voice and more. There are some businesses doing that already in kenya. Google.

I hope such wife is not a lawyer because now that there is already a confession of stealing then stolen evidence(Evidence acquired illegally) is not admissible in a court.
Infact she can just sue u for stealing and have you serve not more than 6 months in Industrial Area, then when you return you can go to court for that divorce u were talking about.


Anyway, like they say in some part of kenya, even if you touch sh**t with one finger u still have to wash the whole hand if not both, get enough evidence if you trully plan to file for a divorce.
This being Africa you still have to convince wazees why those mbuzis that were paid have to be returned and most of them don't know how to read sms' and even if they know the writing are to small for their vision.
Further be ready to answer the Question why is your wife seeking some outside of her matrimonial bed? In other-words they will be telling you you are failing in your duties.
Anyway, I can imagine the emotions involved but you are not supposed to make a decision when emotional as you may regret it.
If it's so bad separate for a while to cool off then both of you will know what you are missing, this has it's disadvantages so take some time and think real hard and in a sober manner before making any move.

Be careful before engaging this group. Majority of them are conmen who cannot deliver anything. We once needed one for an insurance case and had to give up after meeting about 7 so called PIs and they all turned out to be conmen.

Problems in life are many. how we solve them makes the difference.

Marriage is not a simple institution. It has Issues but sitting her down and letting her know the sms hurt you may be one step to solving the problem.

Divorce might not be the solution, coz u never know whether your 2nd, 3rd or even 4th ones will not cheat.

Attending a counseling session together might help your relationship. Do you have 'Family life department' in your place of worship. Make use of it.

Segemia-if you want divorce on those grounds, what about a honey trap?

Not just yet. Remember the husband may be looking hard for grounds to have the marriage dissolved or does not trust the wife. that is why he is snooping on the wifes phone to get a scrap of information which he can now build on.

The husband has come across some info. Does the available info in the phone help the husband to secure a divorce?

May be easier said. But under the circumstances would the law accept the existence of an affairs as material evidence which can be used against the wife?

What enough is enough evidence? Wait for her at home and before she does anything else grab her and remove her nicker and then peep for evidence?

Does this matter?

A doctors report aje sasa?you should see how the lady dresses when she comes to see the advo...she most definetly is getting some some somewhere...