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Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/19/2010 Posts: 1,308 Location: nairobi metropolitan
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segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Pole ndugu, find a way of making it work, coz you might divorce and marry a worse adultler. Democracy does not belong to the dead
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Rank: Member Joined: 12/7/2010 Posts: 520 Location: Epicentre - Ngamia 1
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segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Pole sana kaka. Fight your way to win her heart once more. You did it once and can do it again. All the best. Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs - Farrah Gray.
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2009 Posts: 658
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githundi wrote:segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Pole ndugu, find a way of making it work, coz you might divorce and marry a worse adultler. @ Githundi You see my friend the questions are not asking for alternatives!!! Hausaidii.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/21/2008 Posts: 2,490
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segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Kaka pole - if you already do not trust your wife, the law does not matter - Once a Man suspects the wife whatever the law says is not relevant. Pole Kaka and all the best. The man who marries a beautiful woman, and the farmer who grows corn by the roadside have the same problem
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2009 Posts: 658
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Forester wrote:segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Pole sana kaka. Fight your way to win her heart once more. You did it once and can do it again. All the best. Answer the questions don't give alternatives. Supposing the husband is nolonger interested in the union?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 7,081 Location: Kenya
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@Segemea...Kwanza angalia simu yako na kama haina hio maneno, re-ask the questions!!! The log inside your phone could be bigger than your spouse's speck!
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2009 Posts: 658
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ZZE123 wrote:segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Kaka pole - if you already do not trust your wife, the law does not matter - Once a Man suspects the wife whatever the law says is not relevant. Pole Kaka and all the best. @zze123 So, what are you saying? Kick her out of the house and move on?? Wherever she goes she is still your wife. I think you have not solved the problem yet. Questions not answered!
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Magigi wrote:@Segemea...Kwanza angalia simu yako na kama haina hio maneno, re-ask the questions!!! The log inside your phone could be bigger than your spouse's speck! Somebody made a move first. Stick to that and answer the questions.
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Rank: Member Joined: 6/26/2008 Posts: 365
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Suspicion of adultery is not a ground for divorce. If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love - Maya Angelou
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Jacy26 wrote:Suspicion of adultery is not a ground for divorce. Won't the messages especially the second scenario be a considered hard evidence.
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segemia wrote:Jacy26 wrote:Suspicion of adultery is not a ground for divorce. Won't the messages especially the second scenario be a considered hard evidence. I am no expert, but from the stories I have read about divorce, they are usually very very hard. I really wonder whether a judge would rule on the basis of an sms only. You just need a Ahmed Nasir to trash the sms as being a mere child play from an interested lover who was trying his luck....anyway I think it would be quite hard to use just an sms.
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/6/2009 Posts: 587
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washiku wrote:segemia wrote:Jacy26 wrote:Suspicion of adultery is not a ground for divorce. Won't the messages especially the second scenario be a considered hard evidence. I am no expert, but from the stories I have read about divorce, they are usually very very hard. I really wonder whether a judge would rule on the basis of an sms only. You just need a Ahmed Nasir to trash the sms as being a mere child play from an interested lover who was trying his luck....anyway I think it would be quite hard to use just an sms. I have heard that proving adultery is a difficult task. The adulterer needs to be caught red handed and another witness has to be present in order for the case to be watertight. 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/11/2012 Posts: 5,222
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Na wewe ni tictata! Ati 'Stick to the question.. Answer the question... Don't give alternatives..' Mboss, you might have pushed your wife away and might be doing her a favor by giving her some peace. Marriage does not mean end of attraction. Infact sometimes its when other people become more attractive. Use that as food for your bedroom adventures with each other. #yesthisisanalternative
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Wee wacha! Bad manners kuiba na kuangalia simu ya mama. Anyhow since you have already done it lets put it this way. First find out the kind of relationship it is.It could be an innocent giggling affair where he tells her jokes and she laughs no .....giggles throughout,something you do not do. Do the the messages suggest that they meet?where?If its in church or an open place then akuna shida. Do the messages suggest he showed her his pine ama alimuonjesha?If so....brother hapo ni shida kidogo. legalese matters am green so not sure whether that will lead to divorce case.Maybe a Njuri Ncheke can solve. BTW in your heart what do you want.Aende ama asiende.Ultimately its you not the courts nor Wazua advice. Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2008 Posts: 4,449
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segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
My guy, You got TRUST issues. First Rule - DO NOT violate phone privacy rules. Second Rule - DO NOT violate phone privacy rules. Third Rule - DO NOT violate phone privacy rules. The problem and solution lies with yourself. Fix or manage yourself first.
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Mukiri wrote:Na wewe ni tictata! Ati 'Stick to the question.. Answer the question... Don't give alternatives..' Mboss, you might have pushed your wife away and might be doing her a favor by giving her some peace.
Marriage does not mean end of attraction. Infact sometimes its when other people become more attractive. Use that as food for your bedroom adventures with each other. #yesthisisanalternative @ mukiri Of what use will a trash dustbin to me if i had asked for a food basket??
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2009 Posts: 658
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Bigchick wrote:segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Wee wacha! Bad manners kuiba na kuangalia simu ya mama. Anyhow since you have already done it lets put it this way. First find out the kind of relationship it is.It could be an innocent giggling affair where he tells her jokes and she laughs no .....giggles throughout,something you do not do. Do the the messages suggest that they meet?where?If its in church or an open place then akuna shida. Do the messages suggest he showed her his pine ama alimuonjesha?If so....brother hapo ni shida kidogo.legalese matters am green so not sure whether that will lead to divorce case.Maybe a Njuri Ncheke can solve. BTW in your heart what do you want.Aende ama asiende.Ultimately its you not the courts nor Wazua advice. On the coloured statement nobody would confirm that because the husband has not seen the wife akionyeshwa kijiti and the wife akionyeshana the "storm water drain" and neither does it tell if anyone has alerted the husband on wife dealings with men.
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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segemia wrote:Bigchick wrote:segemia wrote:Some questions.
Firstly, If a husband steals a wife's phone and scrolls through the inbox and finds some flirting messages from men would this be a ground for the husband to seek a divorce according to Kenyan divorce laws?
Secondly, if a husband finds a message which probably gives a clue that a relationship existed between the wife and a man again would this be a ground for divorce for the husband?
Thirdly, would the two scenarios above constitute adultery in as far as the divorce laws are concerned?
Wee wacha! Bad manners kuiba na kuangalia simu ya mama. Anyhow since you have already done it lets put it this way. First find out the kind of relationship it is.It could be an innocent giggling affair where he tells her jokes and she laughs no .....giggles throughout,something you do not do. Do the the messages suggest that they meet?where?If its in church or an open place then akuna shida. Do the messages suggest he showed her his pine ama alimuonjesha?If so....brother hapo ni shida kidogo.legalese matters am green so not sure whether that will lead to divorce case.Maybe a Njuri Ncheke can solve. BTW in your heart what do you want.Aende ama asiende.Ultimately its you not the courts nor Wazua advice. On the coloured statement nobody would confirm that because the husband has not seen the wife akionyeshwa kijiti and the wife akionyeshana the "storm water drain" and neither does it tell if anyone has alerted the husband on wife dealings with men. Case dismissed. Each party to pay their costs. The evidence presented in this court has no weight...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/22/2010 Posts: 11,522 Location: Nairobi
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A good lawyer and a level headed judge...divorce pap...i know a lady seeking for divorce coz her hubby isnt up to the horizontal mambo this is much harder to prove. possunt quia posse videntur
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