maka wrote:Annti_Christy wrote:maka wrote:I have a friend...yes a friend...whose hitting 200 plus on the landing arena,if you even look like a socket in any slight manner he,l be sure to mount you and your friends.The guy has a girlfriend and is looking forward to having nice marriage he confesses though that at times he just dsnt feel so sexually attracted to the girlfriend...am just wondering might it be a case of too many cooks who spoilt the broth,should he go ahead and marry the fair lady or take a sabbatical from being a walking hard on too return things back to normal...
what does he want about it?
He is confused wondering whether he should just continue banging till the day before the altar appointment or he tries focussing on the girlfriend and block out all others.One of the two...
@maka, he should sort out the underlying problem not symptoms. Why isn't he sexually attracted to the girlfriend? My advice would be for him to focus on the girlfriend and block out the others. However, without dealing with the underlying issues causing this behaviour, this could be a short term solution and he could fall back to his habits once married.
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