Vallerrie wrote:I am more interested in the boots, I heard an argument that boots that go over the knee are considered 'slutty'.
I wear them quite often and I was worried that all this time I have been giving a trashy vibe and no one ever told me? So is it true?
Oh and Alphdoty, you are right, i'm asking for me
I like your honesty. You come out as someone reliable and trustworthy.
To be honest I cannot advice you against it or for it.
- My culture teaches women to keep their sexy look for their husbands only.
- And if not married, then preserve it so that the right man will be attracted to you first by your brains and personality and he discovers your other beauty when you open up to him legally

Because this sexy look can really make many men misunderstand you, and maybe even you scare of (through misunderstanding you) and loose good potential husbands.
You have to be able to balance that