washiku wrote:Um Sayala wrote:aemathenge wrote:Muheani wrote:we never had sleep issues with the first two..
5. The first two are hyperactive
6. Born 5 yrs after number 2
single parent atafanya nini....Saidieni jameni
Let me get this straight.
You are a single parent with three children? @aamathenge, I think apologies are in order, assuming you've now understood why S/he is single parent.
Aemathenge is ever fast to bash people, i wish he will be quick to apologise. I am also sure I will be bashed for stating this fact
Let me rephrase.
A single mother with three children, in my opinion, would not see the lack of sleep for her third baby as a life shuttering experience. She would take it in her stride.
Being the elder in our family and my siblings often being left in my care while our employed parents were away on duty, I would know.
The above goes the same for a widow.
A widower on the other hand is a very different kettle of fish. Had @Muheani clearly stated that he is a widower, my incredulity would not have been evoked.
As for the issue at hand, if @Muheani is indeed a widower, just put all the three in their room and switch off the lights. They will sort themselves out. Works like a charm.
Post Script: My condolences for your loss. May his/her soul rest in eternal peace.