To those been there done that.. wat to do?

she has been ok... until her 13th month.

we never had sleep issues with the first two..

huyu..its bed Somersaults every night from midnight..yaani the girl can somersault! very playfull..no cryings..

1. she is 23 pounds
2. own bed.. but once awake stays awake till early morn
3. Feeds arnd 6:30pm..milk at 8pm
4. doesnt oversleep daytime
5. The first two are hyperactive
6. Born 5 yrs after number 2

unfortunately cant do shifts coz the other one expired 4 months after birth..

yaani have googled bila lack

single parent atafanya nini....Saidieni jameni

Try discouraging the day time sleep. Mine was like that too. I realized the afternoon nap was too much for her. even an hour of sleep during the day time was enough to make her restless at night.

Pole sana bro for the loss (underlined above). Be strong for the children. Cant give professional advice on the quiz but from experience, we used to discourage her sleeping during the day.
Ubaya parenting aina formula, my prescription my not work in your case.
But again I say pole

pole for the loss, as others have mentioned try minimize daytime sleep ,if possible encourage a lot of play and also avoid sweet stuff especially towards evening and at night.

Aemathenge is ever fast to bash people, i wish he will be quick to apologise. I am also sure I will be bashed for stating this fact