there are so many seperations i know this year...including my relatives...... are we women becoming unbearable to men or its just side effects recession?


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Before you post anything think.give facts only..It's a serious blog for serious people....Do not insult your brother....respect one another...Just be good....
It's good to live a honest life....life without guilt....

Jeremiah 17:11

As a partridge that hatches eggs which it has not laid,So is he who makes a fortune,but unjustly; In the midst of his days it will forsake him,And in the end he will be a fool.'



From the SK Anti-hate/anti- corruption campaigner..

Many of us don't read the small print...

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Funda u r rait. Women hav become totally unbearable whereas men have hardly changed one bit. @mlefu,kwani umekuwa slow aje?

Can silence be misquoted?

@Fundaah - I'm never one to be chauvinistic or jingoistic and I fully 100% agree that women are equal to men and I treat them that way....BUT...and this is a gigantic BUT....the way the issue of women's equality has been handled...and sometimes the people who attend to such matters....has a lot to do with the breakdown of a key social structure - MARRIAGE....and because of that,family structures (and then communities and then the nation). Most of the champions of women's rights have very scarred background and sometimes undertake the crusade because of their own unique experiences,and mostly indoctrinate their fellow women to believe that ALL men are like the men they left (or who left them) - i.e. spouse abusers,drunks,adulterers,etc. In essence most women enter marriages with foreboding and after the first sign of trouble (it migth be a very petty issue - it might be them who are the problem)...then they rush to the women's brigade (or mothers in law) to have more bulls*** shoved down their throats. They will be told what to accept and what not to accept. There was one episode of Boondocks that really nailed that issue - what women advise other women - yet they themselves are already deficient in their relationships.


My two bits of advice - women - respect your men for who they are - respect your mother but do not swallow everything she says. respect your friends but know they are not the best font of wisdom - that is why we say 'let no man put asunder' - sometimes simple gossip or thoughless talk can start to fracture a marriage (If I were you....I think what you should do....Did you hear that....).

My two pre-recession pesos.

The problem with equality is that we desire that it be with those that have more than us rather that those that have less

hear!hear! Djinn once a third party offers thier opinions on your union trouble lurks.
I recently went for marriage counselling i met couples who have been married 15years + and they all agreed that once you decide to listen to someone else or you compare your man/woman to others you are inviting trouble

lost in translation...