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leona
#11 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 11:09:00 AM
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@Mukiha

Does supporting Alphas' post make me hostile & negative towards men??I think you didn't get my point and am not hostile towards men,i have no reason to.....

Anyway,I had supported Alphadotis' arguement coz it makes a lot of sense to me and what he pointed out is every womans dream of how a man should treat and respect her.

PS: When i said 'most'' i might have meant 55% or 60% or whatever percentage thus meaning not all men...




Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't..
Nevermind what haters say, ignore them til they fade away - Just live your life
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Wendz
#12 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 11:38:00 AM
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@Alpha

Are you married? I am hawking my younger sis.... she could be lucky to be married to you.....

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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leona
#13 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 11:55:00 AM
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Location: Marsabit
@Wendz

Hahaaa! we must collude to net this Alpha for your siz...lets cross our fingers aseme yuko 'singo' sana. Such dudes are very hard to come by.....

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't..
Nevermind what haters say, ignore them til they fade away - Just live your life
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Njunge
#14 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:06:00 PM
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@Alpha,Wendz/Leona,

You mean we bribe our way into their pockets??......Wakae na hiyo pesa yao...!!!...am taking over the kitchen from her starting today ..........Atakula 'paraffin' mpaka agurume kama gari'.....Na wewe Alpha...wewe...!!...........Tunachunguza mambo yako....-:)



Guka wa bijuti...
Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.
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reddevil
#15 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:17:00 PM
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Joined: 9/24/2008
Posts: 235
In my opinion...it could go both ways....

I know of a couple married for 16years now...wife has always earned more than the

dude. she had a better job since...and had more financial clout than the jamaa..to

date they are still together...if she had chosen...she would have packed and left way

back...

Second case was this woman whose husband lost this very lucrative job...wife started

reffering to him as good for nothing,mother inlaw et al got involved they said he is just

wasting the woman...the lady packed her bags left the country she now lives

somewhere in the US...

I think it could go either way...at the same time I could be wrong...am no expert...

maybe Dr Hart has done more analysis on this subject.

Calamities are of two kinds: misfortunes to ourselves,and good fortune to others
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Obi 1 Kanobi
#16 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:19:00 PM
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Posts: 3,017
@ Alphadoti

Your assertions are too simplistic. When you say provide for her,does this mean if you and wifey are earning 50K each,then you should spend all your money to support the family while she spends hers on her hair and nails?

Marriage is about supporting each other equitably,the partner with more money bears the heavier burden,and the one with more mental strength bears more emotional burden.


I guess if you can't win with facts,you can always pen bile-laced,xenophobic rants to distract everyone.
"The purpose of bureaucracy is to compensate for incompetence and lack of discipline." James Collins
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mlefu
#17 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:23:00 PM
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candidate number 2.. .. alpha that was soo sweet imagine am thinking like dahh who needs them anyway......... any chance..or its sisters 1st.. make the BIG switch.. puts me as candidate number 1..single and ready to be $%@

muthomi mugi aiikagia maitho kabere...
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mukiha
#18 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:24:00 PM
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Outside interference - from any quarters,be they friends relatives and so on - can be the greatest threat to a marriage.
Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.
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leona
#19 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:26:00 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 8/1/2008
Posts: 1,432
Location: Marsabit
@Njung'e

Weeeee wacha siasa! Ata ukimpatia paraffin huwesmek! Alpha amesema yotesmile

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Wendz
#20 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 1:14:00 PM
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@Mlefu

You lost it kitambo.... huwesmek.... Wacha Alpha aongee.... am already shopping around for a nice venue.... wedding might even be this weekend... we are moving that fast....

@leona

this Alpha dude was on another thread... i think he is muslim and you know,they are allowed to marry 4 wives... aaai... my little sis hawesmek with him... what do you think?

Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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