Mpenzi I'm not married but I hope to be blessed later on with a wife. I don't see anything wrong with showering together,swimming together or sleeping together with someone you love as long as you don't cross the line,knowhatimean? I thank the most high since my self control is quite strong. If I'm sinning,quote the bible for me pliz. thanx bY aNy MeAns NecEsSaRy.....

@jaribu wish you well concerning the fellowship and prayers in the bathroom

@ jaribu what do you mean ...showering together,swimming together or sleeping together... and still not cross the line......???.... aiiiiii.....hiyo yako ni kali....!!!!...... don't worry....be happy

@Jaribu Ooh,really???? Weeeeee jaribu,wacha kutujaribu.... we may not know the bible inside out but you really want to say that is practical? you shower together,swim together,sleep together WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE and still manage to 'self control'??? Are both of you normal beings with similar feelings as we(others) have???? And what are the boundaries then? I thought our good Holy Bible talks about temptation and that if you lust for someone its as good as you have done it (or is that a church doctrine?)?? Am not judging you,but i am just trying to understand your situation because I know i wouldnt manage that unless some miracle happens. If you really want to know if it is ok,ask yourself,if Jesus was your guest this evening,would you still do the same in his presence? Am not even sure your pastor would even get to know that leave alone Jesus. if not,then its not in order- and am not a preacher so dont ask me to quote the bible. Am using my Sunday school reasoning. Yaaani wakristo siku hizi,ama the old time religion werent able to interpret the bible we do these days????? Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

@ jaribu, some saying which goes something like 'there is no good bird in a millet field' ....so better stop lying and accept the fact that you are a human being with feelings,just like the others....what you are describing yourself to be adds up to an anormally or a retardation....just a thought NEVER TALK OF A RHINO IF THERE IS NO TREE NEAREBY - ZULU PROVERB