Chris Hart - Relationships

You’re pretty, educated, ready to marry and looking for your prince. Yet for some reason, men don’t seem to take you seriously.

OK, they pay you lots of attention to begin with. They’re affectionate, bring you flowers and act like they really care about you. But then they turn into frogs. Neglectful, unromantic, unfaithful frogs.

Could be you’re a Frog Farmer. You turn princes into frogs.

What are you doing wrong?

Frog farmers like keeping men off balance. But good men don’t play games.

No control over your emotions? Nothing more scary to a good man.

You dress like a stripper? To a prince, you are what you wear.

You’re way too needy? When a man’s looking for a wife, he wants to know HIS needs matter to you too. You don’t really care? He’ll soon turn into a frog.

You’re his worst critic? Good men know all their failings and don’t need reminding. You get the best out of a good man by praising his virtues. Endlessly banging on about his vices will turn him right off. Same if you’re judgmental. If he feels you’re analysing everything he says, you’ll never really be close.

You know the club scene better than politics, religion or money? Only frogs go clubbing. Real men want a wife who can manage a home, help with his business and raise the kids.

You’re still seething over an ex? Your new guy doesn’t want to hear about it. Women who can’t say a kind word about men lose them, fast. Ditto if you’ve been in a divorce battle or get violent with a spouse. Or you’re all about yourself, ‘don’t need him,’ or expect your views to always win out over his. Or you constantly let him know what your ‘girl friends’ think he should be doing for you.

Maybe you get intimate too easily? When men date there are only two possibilities on their minds. Sex or marriage. One or the other. It’s obvious really. Men don’t want a wife who’s an easy lay.

Your Facebook page is a cry for male attention? That doesn’t exactly say ‘Your Mum will love me!’ Princes also lose interest if you have lots of male ‘friends.’ Just like women distrust men with too many female friends, men feel the same way about all those guys.

Beautiful hair, beautiful nails, but no money? You’re a ‘model, ‘singer’ or ‘beautician?’ Not unless you’re earning steady money you’re not. It all screams gold-digger. You never buy your own drinks? Sure, a good man will always pick up the tab. But buy him something from time to time, just so he knows you don’t only see him as a source of income.

Good guy’s have simple needs really. Understand them, and your prince will come. But if it’s only your needs that matter? Then your life will forever be full of frogs...

All the very best,
Chris

Frog legs are very delicious. I have tried this meal in Brussel 5yrs ago while schooling in the Flanders.

I also thought the thread is about pools of brackish water with croaking residents ready for sale.

Great read.. alot of women should read it

Si kwa ubaya but my perception of frogs cannot allow my taste buds to reason freely. It's like a guy who had the most delicious meal on ordering the chef's day special only for him to throw up mpaka his intestines after he went to commend the chef and learnt that the delicacy was snake on a platter.