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nostoppingthis
#81 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 11:41:08 AM
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Mukiri wrote:
If you get a woman who doesn't nag you, be worried, be very worried.

Maybe all she wanted was you to haul her a$$ across your knee and land a few 'loving' spanks. Shades of grey inaleta shida!


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly @Mukiri

...and the number of single people in wazua (on this thread) is absolutely shocking!!!! could this be the same explanation @Machanganuzi has???

Lakini pole @Mchanganuzi.....seems everyone has a different experience in marriage...think it depends on the two of you!
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hoodrat
#82 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 11:44:58 AM
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By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher...and that is a good thing for any man.”
Socrates
Apparently there is nothing that cannot happen today!
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ChessMaster
#83 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 11:47:25 AM
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Joined: 2/23/2009
Posts: 1,626
hoodrat wrote:
By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher...and that is a good thing for any man.”
Socrates


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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rryyzz
#84 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 12:40:50 PM
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Amores wrote:
Angelica _ann wrote:
marriage sucks but you have to be strong for the kids and put a positives image for the society. many a times you wish they were dead or just disappeared.

Sad Sad Sad Sad

And the way i am looking forward ?Sad Sad Sad Sad

This shouldn't discourage you. All marriages are not the same, so you should never use someone else's experience to make a decision. As you will note from some comments above, some wazuans are enjoying this experience called marriage.
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.... Leo Buscaglia
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washiku
#85 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 12:48:04 PM
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wasee wrote:
@Mchanganuzi

Marriage is so much harder than anyone prepares you for. it's also much more fun, rich and rewarding than anyone can fully explain.

Fights/disagreements will occur at times because you are two imperfect people staying together and tending to invade into each other's comfort zone.i strongly believe since you had made a choice to stay together, its important to politely express/share your feeling with her and take time to learn for each other. I also think couples should be ready to shift their comfort zones abit to accomdate the other person. that way, you all grow together.

That not withstanding, Respect should always prevail even in the moment of anger and no one should treat the other in a humiliating way or use demeaning words since they cause deeper wounds.


Since I am so eager to join this institution, I will go with this advise....we will overcome all odds and have a very beautiful and rewarding experience. I will do my very best to be the best for her...So help me God. And please go with us all the way!!!
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AlphDoti
#86 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 12:50:56 PM
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Joined: 6/20/2008
Posts: 6,275
Location: Kenya
Wa_ithaka wrote:
A lot nyef nyef but little of realism apart from Anjelica.
Haul your ashes me son. You'll feel much better for it instead of crying about it...

The problem I have with @Anjelica's advice is the pretending part. How can you say I'll stay in the marriage for the kids and put up a face for the society?

If you're sure it does not work, it is better to walk away. But take care of the kids, whether they stay with the mother or not.

Do not stoop too low for these women. Let them know they play a part in the whole game. If they are not ready to play their role as adults, then there is consequences.
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jguru
#87 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 1:22:03 PM
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Posts: 1,574
Tycho-ChessMaster Mode ON.

1. There is no single perfect formula to a happy or successful marriage. What works in one union, might fail in the other. Discover what works in yours.

2. Marriage is ACTIVE 50%-50% participation. If one partner gives 10% and the other 90% then problems will arise. Being passive also ruins it.

Tycho-ChessMaster Mode OFF.
Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
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nostoppingthis
#88 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 1:26:02 PM
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Posts: 5,909
Location: Nairobi
washiku wrote:
wasee wrote:
@Mchanganuzi

Marriage is so much harder than anyone prepares you for. it's also much more fun, rich and rewarding than anyone can fully explain.

Fights/disagreements will occur at times because you are two imperfect people staying together and tending to invade into each other's comfort zone.i strongly believe since you had made a choice to stay together, its important to politely express/share your feeling with her and take time to learn for each other. I also think couples should be ready to shift their comfort zones abit to accomdate the other person. that way, you all grow together.

That not withstanding, Respect should always prevail even in the moment of anger and no one should treat the other in a humiliating way or use demeaning words since they cause deeper wounds.


Since I am so eager to join this institution, I will go with this advise....we will overcome all odds and have a very beautiful and rewarding experience. I will do my very best to be the best for her...So help me God. And please go with us all the way!!!



Woi!!! and I always thought @washiku is a socket...
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vin
#89 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 1:39:37 PM
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Joined: 1/22/2007
Posts: 337
Marriage is like a business.you give it good input and enjoy the benefits.I can say that major issues in marriage are almost similar in all marriages.You run away from a problem you break your marriage.You are strongly advised to be calculating and bold some times.All said and done,only the two married people can find a cure to their problems.I don't believe ati marriage counselors.
Advice is like snow.The softer it lands the harder is sticks.
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quicksand
#90 Posted : Tuesday, February 19, 2013 1:41:28 PM
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Joined: 7/5/2010
Posts: 2,061
Location: Nairobi
jguru wrote:
Tycho-ChessMaster Mode ON.

1. There is no single perfect formula to a happy or successful marriage. What works in one union, might fail in the other. Discover what works in yours.

2. Marriage is ACTIVE 50%-50% participation. If one partner gives 10% and the other 90% then problems will arise. Being passive also ruins it.

Tycho-ChessMaster Mode OFF.


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

Or for happiness in marriage
1. Marry a woman who is an absolute stunner, so that you adore her completely and you become her doormat
2. Marry a woman who is absolutely ugly, so that she adores you completely and becomes your doormat.

Unknown Mode OFF.
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