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ChessMaster
#31 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 12:39:14 PM
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essyk wrote:
@Pastor M.I am deaconess in training.
A discerner of spirits and a degree in madeemoni casting.U need deliverance.



Interesting.

@Mchanganuzi - Sorry.
@Much Know - Wish you the best.
Uncertainty is certain.Let go
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aemathenge
#32 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 12:49:50 PM
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Mchanganuzi wrote:
I will never visit the institution called marriage again, never. Full stop. Could i be right or its just a matter of time? i realy dont know.

You cannot win them all.

However, I grant you it is better to have tried and failed as opposed to my position where I will not dare venture until I find one who meets MY basic conditions.

Oh. And by the way, my belated welcome to the Virtual Republic of Wazua. Don't be a stranger. Visit and post often.
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essyk
#33 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 1:30:55 PM
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ChessMaster wrote:

Interesting.


"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.
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RedStar
#34 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 2:48:05 PM
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Location: Kwa Nyumba
This @Mchanganuzi dude is playing cards here...
Tell what happened so that RedCross/Crecent come your way, FREE. Kwani MAKOSA IMEFANYIKA?? Anything in marriage is sortable hata ikiwa ni makosa gani... Going thru all you have posted, I believe YOU, and not the institution, are the problem. Prove Wazuans wrong...
'Hope' is not a strategy. Take Action!
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Buster
#35 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 3:27:02 PM
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Mchanganuzi wrote:
I have been a man in my life and never gave up or bowed out of any challenge and that means I excelled academically, career wise, in business and in a way financially, but guys, I for the first time bow out and decide that it's better to live in peace and in one piece rather than find myself rotting somewhere in jail or six feet down just for a minute of anger. I find it very difficult to accept this as a man because it hurts my ego but I find it to be the only way out. Anything that reminds me of marriage just changes my pulse rate and I even have difficulty breathing. If this is what marriage can be, hata pope anaishi. But thank God am learning to take life day after another and finding peace within to forge ahead.

18 Years and counting... It's never easy. The + far out weigh the -. But it's not easy. Why lie.
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wazuaguest
#36 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 4:19:16 PM
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Buster wrote:
Mchanganuzi wrote:
I have been a man in my life and never gave up or bowed out of any challenge and that means I excelled academically, career wise, in business and in a way financially, but guys, I for the first time bow out and decide that it's better to live in peace and in one piece rather than find myself rotting somewhere in jail or six feet down just for a minute of anger. I find it very difficult to accept this as a man because it hurts my ego but I find it to be the only way out. Anything that reminds me of marriage just changes my pulse rate and I even have difficulty breathing. If this is what marriage can be, hata pope anaishi. But thank God am learning to take life day after another and finding peace within to forge ahead.

18 Years and counting... It's never easy. The + far out weigh the -. But it's not easy. Why lie.

@Buster Wow congratulations are in order, @Mchanganuzi pole, I don't want to preempt but people change you wake and see a totally different person until you wonder if you are in dreamland or not.Thats what I dread most, I will get in and pray to God to avoid such happening to me.
Africa belongs to Africans.
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jguru
#37 Posted: : Sunday, February 17, 2013 4:44:53 PM
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Why do people change after marriage? The person you married turns out to be a totally different person. It doesn't matter whether courtship/dating was long enough. With time, this institution starts to have problems. When the children start to be born, women change during pregnancy/early childhood and the man just looks for another peaceful house to go hang his coat. Or when a 'non-drinking' man prior to marriage, suddenly becomes a drunkard after marriage. Why can't things remain the same? Sad
Set out to correct the world's wrongs and you will most certainly wind up adding to them.
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Robinhood
#38 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 5:10:58 PM
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@Mchanga... Judging from the pain you profess, you must have found her enjoying the love of another bull!! Please confirm so we we can adjust the sympathies a notch higher.
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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josiah33
#39 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 5:21:24 PM
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Robinhood wrote:
@Mchanga... Judging from the pain you profess, you must have found her enjoying the love of another bull!! Please confirm so we we can adjust the sympathies a notch higher.

Eish! aren't u being so mean to this chap?
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harrydre
#40 Posted : Sunday, February 17, 2013 5:48:37 PM
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josiah33 wrote:
Robinhood wrote:
@Mchanga... Judging from the pain you profess, you must have found her enjoying the love of another bull!! Please confirm so we we can adjust the sympathies a notch higher.

Eish! aren't u being so mean to this chap?


i agree with robinhood. we need the whole story otherwise it might even be his fault.
i.am.back!!!!
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