I'll stick to my initial statement coz its true.
I'll change it when one brings empirical evidence on the status of a woman's or man's dressing increasing or decreasing their morality quotient.
I don't want to judge your parents, but I don't think that your parents or my parents ideas of decency or lack of it can be used to judge other person's standards of decency and morality.
If I was to base the morality of any woman in 2013 based on what my grand father considered decent, then I would expect that my daughters are all circumcised and wear very large rings in their ears to make them decent and beautiful.
I've always find this all the time. Tell me if you haven't seen it.
A woman who is dressed "decently" passes a man who just won't take his eyes of her. The pass each other and the man continues staring. When you make contact with this fellow, he notices you've seen him gawking and he then proceeds to shake his head and gives a clicking noise with his tongue. All the while he hasn't stopped looking at the woman.
The problem is not the woman. The problem is you the man who can be easily affected by the dressing or appearance of a woman. Shauri yako!
Jose: If I make it through this thug life, I'll see you one day. The Lord is the only way to stop the hurt.