Because when a lady chooses to love she does so with all of her mind,soul and body.
She holds nothing back,because she is in love.
It doesn't even matter the person, hata kama ni wanugu.At this point,warnings don't make sense she is ready to sacrifice anything for it.
Love is strange but carries it's own risks.
Some guys on the other hand can be weird,not able to discern when a lady is truly in love and act accordingly,like a gentleman. eg the Lady banker driving a wazuan crazy.
Hapo ndio shida inatokezea cz the lady tries too hard to win his heart.
Those on the outside like you start pitying the lady cz we can see the hole, she's about to fall into.
"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good.