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Tebes
#11 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 11:11:52 AM
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gregory wrote:
Jana usiku there was a guy beating the living daylights out of the wife/girlfriend. has society sunk that low that you don't care nini inaendelea kwa jirani?Pray



What if when you "people" got to his door and you find him shouting to his girl, "Kubaff, toa Ngotha!!!" What would you have done???smile
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gregory
#12 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 11:14:36 AM
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why i raise the issue is that people usually hear squabbles going on at their neighbour's place then when a pile of bodies are discovered in the morning, they are the first to tell the tv crew what transpired yet disaster would have been averted had they intervened. "love your neighbour as you love yourself". and btw, i have lived in a house where my dad beat up my mum and it was very scary. at that time there's not much i could do since i was a kid. but now, i can't watch as someone else goes through that.
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TPK
#13 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 11:15:49 AM
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gregory wrote:
Jana usiku there was a guy beating the living daylights out of the wife/girlfriend. the screaming from the lady had gone on for like half an hour before the neighbors sought to find out what was going on. we knocked his door hard and the guy ignored while still beating the poor girl. eventually we broke a window pane and we finally could see the idiot. imagine a mid 30s man with a tattoo beating a woman senseless!!! i expected it to be some old senile fool. anyway, my concern is it took people more than 30 minutes to intervene yet everyone could hear the screams. has society sunk that low that you don't care nini inaendelea kwa jirani?Pray


Greg, I fail to understand the connection between a tatoo and domestic violenced'oh!
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gregory
#14 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 11:20:24 AM
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"Greg, I fail to understand the connection between a tatoo and domestic violence"
i think its the yob culture
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chemos
#15 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 11:21:26 AM
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Was the tattood guy beating the girl with his hands ama his pine tree..
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King G
#16 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 11:38:05 AM
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chemos wrote:
Was the tattood guy beating the girl with his hands ama his pine tree..


and was the wife crying or moaning!
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AlphDoti
#17 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 12:13:08 PM
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@Gregory sorry but some things are complex and sometimes do not have answers. You probably are still young and do not understand that there is so much that goes on in a "marriage" that you cannot answer with a simple answer.

I'm not saying I support brutality, but you see people sometimes "beat" each other. Are you going to break into people's doors just because they beat each other?
I condemn the killing of each other but just assuming you must go and break into their homes when they fight is immature.

Just another thing.
In future, be careful not to take sides, when you happen to mediate domestic disputes. Even when it's your brother's. They will resolve and start telling each other how you said this aout the other...

And for those who are married:
When you differ with your wife at night, don't let her run away at night, lock the door and hide the key... because she might embarass you.
Just contain her inside and maybe you'll be laughing about it at breakfast table in the morning.
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washiku
#18 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 1:05:57 PM
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There is a movie called fireproof...and that book love dare, couples should watch and read it together. Maybe each of them would work on their egos, temperament, weaknesses and such others and prevent chaos before it happens...Just like if you are wearing fireproof clothes doesn't mean fire will not come your way, it just means you can withstand the fire. If your marriage is fire proof it doesnt mean issues will not come up, it means together you can put of the fire without damage...

and one important one: NEVER ABANDON YOUR PARTNER, ESPECIALLY IN A FIRE!
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Motomoto
#19 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 1:39:15 PM
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King G wrote:
chemos wrote:
Was the tattood guy beating the girl with his hands ama his pine tree..


and was the wife crying or moaning!

I guess both.
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dunkang
#20 Posted : Monday, January 21, 2013 1:40:13 PM
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Unlike in the past, men nowadays don't beat their wives ovyo ovyo. But when they do, it at times turns out fatal.

i.e. Mwanamume anavumilia until he at times explodes and does the unthinkable.
Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.” ― Rashi

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