when you're done, start to leave and just a few steps, turn back and look at her, smile, hesitate (the pause is so important because it is so powerful), then call her name and ask her if you can meet her in person without the glass screen between you two? If she hesistates, it is a yes, give her your number.

Sasa angalieni!! Herein lies the problem. Whomever mentored you when you were circumcised did a poor job. You don't need to be told that it will rain when the clouds are clearly visible. Chida chida chida

Therein lies the problem with Nairoberry men. You want things PAP!

You rob the woman off the dance of nature. The hunt, the seduction, the appreciation. Do you know the pain she goes through to look the way she does?

Do you want to be the guy she wants to forget in a hurry? The guy whose number she deletes from her phone book on 1st January as her new year resolution?

If I desire a woman and have her, I also want to break it up in such a way that if I call her again her heart will skip a beat and grab the opportunity to be appreciated as a woman and not just as a landing base once more.

I visit old flames and see gifts I bought or gave them displayed prominently long after everything has changed. That tells me SHE had a good time. That is what I live for in a woman.

So probably you just go through the whole ten miles.. then come let us know of how thugs waylaid you.. how the account is now home to roaches.. how you are doing at Nairobi womens.. watching the blue ceiling and a monotonous fern going round and round and round and round and....