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Help! I'm attracted to my banker
Money Whisperer
#1 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:06:21 AM
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Ok here's the story. She's cute and with a warm smile, soothing voice,great legs popping from under her skirt suit, the works. So over time we have been chatting whenever I go to the bank, she lights up when she sees me, calls be by first name then attends to my issues. In fact once I had issues with online banking and she gave me her personal number to contact her in case the IT dudes failed to sort my problem, but out of professional courtesy i have not used it to ask her out for coffee. Now I have been watching her ring finger just to make sure the coast is clear and this is where the problem lies. A ring keeps popping up then disappearing. It's been missing for a while. It's not the plain wedding rings but a fancy ring but on the ring finger. So two days ago I walk into the bank, the first time this new year, and I tell myself I have to push the envelope. Game plan: Light up when you see her, walk over, wish her a happy new year and ask her out for coffee to usher in the new year. When I saw her, i lit up kama ngulobu walked over to her desk said hi then her phone rings and she stretches out her left hand to pick it up and the fancy ring is on the damn ring finger! Naomba Wazua ingilie kati kwa sababu singetaka makosa ifanyike.

Yours,
Desperate
"Money never sleeps"
Money Whisperer
#2 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:09:56 AM
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I wanted this in the culture section but it ended up in politics. So please note guys, this is not about eagles and cords and jubilees and amani. This is dead serious stuff
"Money never sleeps"
mlefu
#3 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:11:05 AM
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hehehe..another Nairobi guy.
chemos
#4 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:14:55 AM
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Give me her number!!!
Tebes
#5 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:15:08 AM
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Read My worst Money Mistake thread and especially the post by @King G;
smile smile smile smile
Quote:
King G wrote:
Investing in stocks using the v shape method. walks into CFC stock broking then on Kimathi street. Wants to buy 10,000 shares of ARM at 18 bob in 2005. The chick convinces me that that is not a good plot (ati the company is fmaily owned by wahindis - what a reasoning coming to think of it). meanwhile i am concentrating on her clevage and agree with her and 'we' divert the funds into another stock pap. i did not lose money but i would have been far much better off if i had gone with my ideas not her ..... nipples!

"Never regret, if its good, its wonderful. If its bad, its experience."
Motomoto
#6 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:17:23 AM
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Usijaribu and if you try make sure you have transfered all the cash to another bank! Do you know you are dealing with Nairobi women. If I were you I would run. Asiyesikia la mkuu huvunjika guu. Usiseme hujuambiawa.
Motomoto
#7 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:19:32 AM
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"Almost 16 years of being in Nairobi I am a still in a
culture shock; The Nairobi woman shocks me; she
is not like the humble Jerutos I was used to in
Eldoret. The Nairobi woman earns a salary of 10k
yet stays in a bungalow worth 40k... you wonder
how she raises the rent"
.
http://www.wazua.co.ke/f...s&t=22163#post352490
Liv
#8 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:19:43 AM
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There could be mutual attraction...but first you need to be sure she is not just attracted by the kind of credits that hit your account...and the balances.... being a banker she probably has more information about you than you have about her. I guess you could first try to get info about her marital status through some other ways
quicksand
#9 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:19:51 AM
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Why are you even posing this question? Isnt it obvious what you should do? A man makes his play and leaves the girl to decide, otherwise regret follows. Your window is disappearing fast. So next time ask ...can I buy you coffee? If she rebuffs you, hand over your business card ..say in case she changes her mind. Quite simple. Don't go in with the big guns blazing she might think you are after her pants and your chance will evaporate. When the other dude mucks up she might get around to calling you out of sheer anger and right there will be your opportunity. But you have to make a move first.
Good luck mister.
Money Whisperer
#10 Posted : Tuesday, January 15, 2013 11:22:28 AM
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@Chemos, sikupi ng'oooo
@Tebes, you scaring me dude. I'll try and keep my head level. so far I discuss serious investment options with another banker, a dude, while she handles the lighter stuff like forex rates, online banking
"Money never sleeps"
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