Whatever you say, please don't say 'Your daughter is good in bed'

@Mukiri, wewe cheka tu. Have you done this? I doubt.

@radio, give a hypothetical intro.

seems wazuans elders are all on holiday. ziishe haraka so they can trickle back.

I had posed this very question to my grandfather before he went to rest(may his soul RIP)He told me a son can go ahead and marry without being held hostage by what the father did or did not do. The person who get's it tough is a daughter coz if the dad had not visited his wife's place, he must fulfill the obligation first otherwise it is a taboo for him to even think of touching a thing! Again, its a taboo for a man to ask more than he ever gave, though the way they beat that is by valuing the "sheep" higher eg If he was asked to give a bull, or 5 sheep for example, he will still ask for the 5 sheep, but now he may value each sheep at 20k or 30k etc...just as an example.

If you do not follow some of these traditional practices, they will come to haunt you later on. Culture is very important in as much as we have become westernized..

What about the children of single mothers? Obviously no dowry was paid for the mothers....