Hii maneno ya kufukuzana na vijanajike inaleta msisimko lakini mwanamume yoyote aliye na akili zake timamu anatambua kuwa msisimko huo una makali yanayokata pande zote. Baada ya kulungula mtu hujihisi vibaya na ukikumbuka kuwa tamati ya uroda huu hudumu kwa takriban dakika moja tu au hata muda mfupi kuzidi huo,kamwe hamna haja. Mtafute umpendaye umwoe kisha baada ya hapo tieni nyote bidii kwenye mchezo huo wa kitanda na umhusishe huyo mkeo vilivyo. Utafurahia milele na hayo mengine utakula na macho tu!!! mimi kamwe sifukuzani na vijajike na sina malalamishi yoyote. We tenda wema kisha wende zako. Usinipe macho ya kutarajia shukrani!!!

@ mwabili Question: Is it that you don't find you wife beautiful anymore or is it that you don't find her interesting? Which of the two has faded away? Bright and interesting people talk about ideas. Those of average intelligence talk about things. Stupid people talk about other people.

@ Mwabili. clearly the way u presented the thread initially suggested that yu recorgnized your behaviour as a problem - even asking God why he created you male. i guess it all depends on what you want in life (or what you think is best for you). its very important to be clear on that. if having numerous ladies in your life works for you,fine. just because wifey didnt leave you,do not assume she is okay with it. in my opinion,a real man controls his lower nature with his higher nature (mind and reason). anything contrary to this is weakness,regardless of what they taught you. again i cannot overemphasize the importance of the company that you keep. its true there are men who are kaliwad,but then again there are those that have made deliberate choices to be monogamous. those are the ones that 'reap the benefits of well natured mature relationships even into old age' Better to be at the cause of your experience rather than at the end of it. In all situations,be cause ...

Talk of kukaliwa @mwabili You better not eat chapo an meat stew in that house anymore! hahaha,or ask Jaribu and he'll tell you whats coming! Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep. Carl Sandburg

....ask shaft....that hardware was meant for softwares....not for beating the beans out of their pods!!!! NEVER TALK OF A RHINO IF THERE IS NO TREE NEAREBY - ZULU PROVERB